I was considering the other day, as someone attempted to convince me he was what I was seeking, what it was I really want. The list was something like a polyamorous, sadist, bbw lover, and he would most likely be Buddhist/pagan or some other alternative spirituality....and as if that were not enough he should live in or near Tulsa or at least be able to visit frequently. I laughed a lot called my husband (if you are poly you will get my sharing this with him) he laughed and said he thought there were 3 they all live in San Francisco and two of them are gay. So I'm working on not clinging to perfection but being open to what presents itself.
I have been exploring bdsm for about 8 years now and I am looking for a partner that is willing to take all she/he wants without hesitation. I need someone that first and foremost has integrity. Too much suffers without it. I need someone that is responsible for himself and knows what he wants in his life.I am a masochist, so having someone that would take what I have to offer would be nice but first and foremost will be someone who wants to relate in an open and honest manner, someone that understands that having an emotional connection is an essential part of going to the depths of bdsm.
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My Ideal Person:
A lovely concept...that may actually exist in fairy tales  I don't need someone to be my husband, I have one. I do need someone that is open to a real relationship. Someone that understands that bdsm opens up a part of me that is very special. So if you're looking for a whore to fuck and walk away from when it is over...I'm not interested.
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