My Ideal Person:
I love meeting new people who enjoy the same lifestyle, and I love all my friends. I am actively seeking a female slave/sub at this point of my life. That is what life is all about.

I am honored to have ace at my side. He takes care and serves me beyond belief.

We all go through so much in our lives, day in and day out. I can’t think of anything more important than to treat each other with respect. Whether you are a sub/slave or a Dom/Domme, each have their distinct part in this lifestyle, and it is how we honor each other with our words and our actions.

The gift a sub gives of his/her submission is so great, so difficult a task, and this is known by the dominant. This gift should come from the heart and soul, crossing boundaries that are mutually agreed upon, and trying not to allow selfishness to come into play.

The gift the Dom/Domme gives is the time from their hectic schedules and the energy they will emit. They embrace the submission you give and fly high from the pleasures they achieve. Such energy can be felt and fed back to the submissive.

Each require inner strength, honesty, and giving from the heart. If this is what you seek, then you have come to the right place.

There are many trolls in our community, if you are are here just for hot sex, then please go away and visit adult friend finder, they will appreciate you there.

Come willing to learn, for each dominant requires different skills, and dominants can be at different levels than you can achieve right now. Get prepared for what you have to give by reading, talking, listening, and watching. Keep your manners, and you will start well.

In the beginning, most are so eager to jump in, they forget safety. Safety is for everyone, sub/slave, Dom/Domme, down to someone’s children at home. You not only need a safety call set up when meeting individuals, a safe word when in play with someone, but you also need to think about condoms in many situations.

Start your own “subby” bag if you are a submissive, filled with personal things you may need. That should include any objects you may want inserted into you, down to soft cuffs that keep you from hurting your wrist.

You are no one’s sub/slave until you both reach an agreement. That is right, you have to agree to give your submission, not be merely ordered around by a dominant you meet. Agreements can be in either verbal or written form.

I hope we are able to meet along the path someday.