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blondevenom  
Things To Ponder.....
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Member Since: May 16, 2002

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Information:
Gender:   woman
Birthdate:   February 8, 1971
(41 years old)
Astrological Compatibility
Lives in:   Paducah, Kentucky, United States
Relocate?:   No
Height:   5 ft 5 in / 165-167 cm
Body Type:   Average
Smoking:   I'm a light/social smoker
Drinking:   I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs:   I don't use drugs
Education:   Prefer not to say
Race:   Caucasian
Sexual Orientation:   Straight
Speaks:   English
Hair Color:   Blonde
Hair Length :   Medium
Eye Color :   Blue
Glasses or Contacts :   Contacts


LifeStyle
Activities Enjoyed:   Prefer not to say
I think about ALT lifestyle:   Prefer not to say
Role:   Submissive
Level of Experience:   More than five years
Dress:   Casual
Social Orientation :   Prefer not to say
Safe Sex:   Yes
Demeanor:   Average

Personal
Body Decorations : Earring(s); Tattoo(s)
Breast Size:
Pubic Hair: Prefer not to say
Marital Status: Single
Have Children: No
Want Children : Yes
Occupation: Business (Management
Religion: Prefer not to say

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41 year old woman in Paducah, Kentucky, United States Looking For: Men for active participation

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In this world where too often the unruly take O/our very souls, a craving stirs from the deep, inside of O/our souls....an understanding of beings, emotions, even lust. Longing for the deeper understandings, I search for the One who fulfills my soul...bringing me to the insight of delight. I long for the One to carry me away, to have Him caressing my flesh, surrounding me in His light, His realms of the underworld... silken murmurs retrieve my thoughts..turning my gaze upon O/our kingdom of life. In my thoughts appears the need of great worth...heavy is His scent. His fragrance lingers on the top of my mind. The need of comfort shall escape through the veils of O/our trust...the trust between He and I. I shall become His truest treasure beyond all others. He will cut through my being..activating my soul, making me His.....blue moon captures the form of the Master I shall call mine upon my kneeling to Him, hands upon my thighs upward in submission to Him, bare shall be my flesh, head back with my eyes looking down in respect to Him...He will incircle the flames burning inside me. I await His command, to honor Him. I will be majestic in my flow...an offering for all that is sacred...for want for wane my thoughts shall crumble like dust..but for the touch of The One, the true One.....the One I shall call mine.

Hmmmmm.......other thoughts:

Good communication is always key in any relationship......and so many "Doms" ignore this.

As hardcore/softcore as we may get in our play as Dom/sub, I’m a romantic at heart. They say romance is this "beautiful illusion" and it’s important to be aware of such. Regardless, it’s an illusion, a game, worth indulging in.........and I always insist that we never lose sight of the illusion.......and keep in mind that we are both real human beings, having very real needs, feelings, and perspectives.

The Mental/Psychic/Emotional/Personal connection must be strong enough that all activities between myself and my Dom automatically contain that bond, and in every erotic moment, no matter how much our flesh is alive, that bond is just as tangible and present.......always.

No two people are so alike each day as to where and at what point their Personal Threshold occurs, as it can change depending on circumstances on different days. It is always the skill of the Dom to know me well enough to realize where my threshold is on a particular night and to stay within those parameters.

A good sense of humor is a must as well. It is very important to be able to laugh at life and yourself. Otherwise it all gets too damn serious, you know?

I am not interested in pursuing anything serious with you if you:

-- prefer to be negative about life
-- have the word "satan" anywhere in your profile
-- are on prescription anti-psychotic or anti-depressant medications
-- are currently in a serious relationship with another woman
-- need to drink alcohol every day or night
-- do any drug that goes up your nose (or anything harder!!!)

Edge Play is not the same thing as knife-play. Edge Play is about intense scenes, not necessarily painful/scary, but always having a distinct heat and tangible intensity. Edge Play scenes take more thought and planning on the part of the Dom. Edge Play is about going to the very edge of where you previously thought your limits were, whether mental, physical or emotional limits.

There is no limit to how much a person can learn or grow if they want to, and there is no end to educating and expanding oneself.

I cannot stand men who show nothing but a close-up photo of their exposed crotch- that shows me nothing about what makes you a unique individual, and to be honest showing nothing but your crotch shows a complete lack of class. Posting a photo like that is asking to get e-mail from every drooling idiot on this site. Show some confidence -- post a photo of your face! Don't be afraid to post a photo of you with your clothes actually on -- are You a real person ?

"Tell me and I will forget, show me and I will remember, involve me and I will understand" Aristotle

On behalf of every man, looking out for every girl....
You are the god and the weight of her world

i keep a close watch on this heart of mine. i keep my eyes wide open all the time. i keep the ends out for the tie that binds. because you’re mine, i walk the line. ~johnny cash~

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My Ideal Person:
Honesty,most important. Respect....for Himself as well as me. Trustworthiness,loyalty,forgiving,open....able to make concessions, patient, the ability of unconditional commitment. One who will allow me to have my own feelings, and listen when i express them. One who knows both who/what You are as well as what You want/need. One that is *real*. One who not only is a Dom in chat rooms, but also in real life. One who will teach and guide me through the depths of darkness with a firm and patient hand. One that is witty and fun, outgoing and happy with life and has a positive attitude. One who knows the value of my most priceless gift, and takes my mind, body, and soul to that infinite state of oneness where only total trust exists. One who will be humble in possession, surroundings and outlook. One that is mentally strong. One that can make existence and non-existence merge. One who demands my submission. One who understands it is the sub who makes the Dom, as well as the Dom who shapes His sub. One who knows without His sub, He is nothing but a mortal Man...for He has noone to Dom ~s~. One that can accept me for who I am and mold me into much more. One who does not play the "Mightier than Thou" act in order to prove He is Dom, and worries more about what His sub thinks of Him, than what others think of Him....who do You have to prove anything to ? One who knows He really does not know "everything there is to know" and that there is always so much more to learn, no matter how long He has been in this lifestyle. One who can walk to the edge, listen and laugh, play with abandon but continue to learn. I need One who can be "everything" for me. All this.......i thought i had found in a very special One.....but again, my heart was only broken, and i was again disappointed. ~ss~

Daddy is a term some use with someOne other than their actual father, because it implies explicit trust and knowledge of unconditional love. That's what my father gave me, and to earn that title, One would have to be as good a Man in my eyes as He is to this day. Dont expect me to call You that.....~ss~

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