Experienced, articulate, educated, romantic, highly energetic and active, submissive seeks Dom/me for serious relationship. Plan on getting into my head/heart before getting into my pants. i am ready for my Partner.
i am not by nature submissive. I don't know which label best describes me these days. I'm open to explore. i am a very confident and strong woman. i have been Dominant my entire life, but seek to grow and enhance submissive qualities within myself as those Dominant qualities no longer serve me. For the most part this has been somewhat successful.
My goals as a submissive are to drop some walls and walk the world with more humility/humbleness. Diplomacy and bureaucracy have not been my strong points... submission helps to develop these qualities in me. i no longer "react" to situations, but rather "respond". submission has been good for me. 
i am more interested in my partner being active in common ways that include some or all of my hobbies: backpacking, kayaking, hiking, mountain biking, camping, rock climbing, exercise (fanatical), weight training, swimming. I also enjoy movies, reading, intellectual discourse, spending time on the beach and of course BDSM (i am involved in the local community). Bondage and impact play are favorites. About impact play: luv the belt and single tail. BDSM is the LEAST important aspect of my desires.
One line emails will be ignored. The java chat on this site does not work for me. Do not send email telling me You will fuck all three holes then beat me like i need. If that is Your idea of an introduction, do not expect a response from me.
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My Ideal Person:
First and foremost we should be best friends. Willingness to explore activities we have in common together is a good place to start. my Partner should appreciate and understand that although i am a highly sexual woman and perhaps a masochist, that to truly own me, You will need to understand my underlying romantic, heartfelt nature and connect to it. Understand that a deeper, heartfelt connection draws out greater submission and trust which will allow You to take U/us to greater and deeper levels of edgeplay. Your nature should be one of natural Dominance psychologically and physically. You should be articulate, commanding, confident, experienced, physically fit and sexually capable. Please do not bother me with contacts if You are not relationship oriented.
It is repeatedly frustrating that the slut and pain slut of me is seen before the deeper nature of me. my essence is as multifaceted as the next person and unless You are Someone that wants to explore ALL those facets and recognize me as worthy of romance, love and joy as well as Your Dominance, sadism and sexual energy, W/we should probably not connect.
Chemistry is very important. Seems to be what keeps the fires burning. And for me Dominance is a HUGE part of the chemistry. If Someone doesn't have a Dominant nature, they are not likely to be able to Dominate me. i can give over my submission to virtually anyone for a while, but to KEEP it, one has to impress Their Dominance upon me...and i would say continue to do so.
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