I have been out of the lifestyle for many years now. I haven't even dated on a vanilla level for over two years now.
As of Halloween, I had Gastric Bypass surgery. In the last two months, I have lost 75lbs so far. I have been spending my time and efforts on bettering myself in many ways. Improving my health has just been the most important. I still have a ways to go yet. However with this goal already in the process and a few others in the works as well. I have decided that I am ready to consider myself for availability once again.
I am creative and adventurous. I love to travel. To meet people and to go places I've never been before. I love friends and family, the more the better. Many of my friends have become like family to me. I am very loving and caring in nature. I tend to spoil those closest to me. I am a pleaser at heart. I am considered a pretty good cook by most that have tasted it. I love to see people enjoying my food and I guess hearing their praises goes along with my desire to earn rewards as well. Anything I can do that will get me a pat on the head and a well done kitty. I'm all for doing over and over again.
Another thing I love to do is smile and laugh. I have also been told that I can be funny. I don't know about being funny but I love to have a good time and if I can. I like helping everyone around me be happy and enjoy themselves too. I bar-tended for many years and I think it was because I just loved being the host of the party.
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My Ideal Person:
I also like someone that is really a dom and not a pretender. One that enjoys what he does. Sensual, Erotic, Adventerous, and imaginative are all good things to have too. Any one or a combination is more than a desirable trait. I have them myself. How ever I am merely a sub, waiting for the dom to serve.
Must be my age or older. Sorry, how ever I do not desire or will I serve a younger dom.
I am looking for that special Dom that has a understanding and caring for his sub. That wants to see her become something beautiful, that he has molded her into. To have a sub that will look up to him and admire him for what he has to offer. Someone I can learn from and grow with in many ways.
There is more to life than what goes on in the bedroom. There for there has to be a larger connection in their day to day lives than just a one dimensional relationship. I am looking for not only a Dom/sub relationship but one that is well rounded and able to sub-stain both parties involved.
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