She is a 35 bi switch, Amazonian type woman, tall and full of spunk. She likes to be dominant with submissive males and females. She is full figured and big breasted (bbw). She is able to adapt to most any situation and can be very demanding. She is a professional business woman that knows how to get things done. She loves movies, the beach, shopping, camping, reading, and outdoorsy stuff.
He is a 37 straight dominant. He likes to be in control and is head of the household. He can be very strict and also very flexible when need be. Very goal oriented. He has been in the lifestyle for many years but always more in private than public. He is definitely a leader and highly creative. Has a very dark passionate side.
Likes sci-fi, reading, playing computer games, weights and biking.
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My Ideal Person:
We have redone our profile once again. I think each time we do this; we narrow in on what we are looking for that much more.
We are looking for a slave/sub for domestic service to start with and over time have the relationship expand into more. We are hoping to try new things and want our slave/sub to be open and flexible. We do not have any preconceived ideas of what the relationship will expand into; we are open to the possibilities. It will really depend on the individual.
Domestic Duties will include: cleaning, laundry, cooking when needed, grocery shopping, organizing, and anything else to help the household run smoother.
Our ideal person will:
Love to serve. They have a true passion for pleasing others with no thought of what they will get out of it or just go through the motions so they can get some kind of reward at the end. They continually place others needs before their own. They enjoy this lifestyle and are open to trying new things. They are trustworthy and honest. They are easy to get along with and able to carry on a conversation. They understand that over time the situation will likely develop in to more than just domestic duties; however that will always be expected of them no matter how the relationship evolves. They are employed and be willing to contribute to the household. Live with us 24/7.
We have an open room that we are saving for our slave/sub. There are two options.
1. You can serve us part time until we feel that a live in situation would work out.
2. You can rent the room from us and we can slowly develop the relationship over time.
We are expecting in the long term that our slave/sub will live with us and this would be a 24/7 situation. Also you will be controlled by BOTH of us. So yes you will have a Master and Mistress giving you orders. You should be comfortable serving both of us.
Here is what we expect.
Contact us and let us know you are interested and WANT THIS Give us your number so we can talk on the phone and go over everything We set up a time and date to meet. Meet us in a public place for coffee or lunch or whatever. If everything works out
then step 5 Choose one of the two options above and get started
We do not want endless emails or people that are unsure about talking on the phone. We are REAL and very serious about this. We expect the same from you. We want this to happen sooner than later. You really should know if this is right for you or not. We are willing to accept newer people but please be sure you REALLY want to do this.
IF YOU ARE LOOKING TO CONNECT ON MERELY A SEXUAL LEVEL, DO NOT BOTHER CONTACTING US. WE ARE NOT LOOKING FOR A PLAY PARTNER.
We know what kind of person we are looking for and what type of a situation we are looking for. No sense trying to put a square peg in a round hole. We also understand that people arent perfect and if we waited for that perfect person to come along, we would be waiting forever
We are not looking for someone that just wants to be tied up 24/7 and have no interaction or is simply looking for a quick thrill. We are not looking for a play partner. We want someone that can be a part of our lives and that in serving and pleasing us, in turn will give them pleasure. We are NOT looking for some kinky one night stand threesome.
I know some people in the lifestyle are more extreme than others, I would say we are on the less extreme side when it comes to D/s. We enjoy it and it enhances our lives but its not our entire life. We have interests outside of D/s and hopefully you do as well. Nothing is more boring than trying to talk to someone that has just one train of thought and nothing else interests them. This doesnt mean we arent strict when we need to be or cant laugh either.
We ultimately want to find someone that will be devoted to us and be loyal. We want someone that is going to contribute to the household and not be a financial drain on our resources. We arent giving a free ride. We expect you to contribute so we can ALL have a better quality of life. We will look after your well being.
Sexual Aspect: What your role sexually is in this situation will depend on the individual. Every person is different and we are not looking at putting ourselves in a box. There is a lot of room for trying new things out and seeing what works and what doesnt. We have talked about keeping a sub/slave in chastity for periods of time and having them work for rewards of release. In this world of bdsm D/s there are so many areas to explore. We want someone to explore some of those areas with and see what works and what doesnt. There maybe times you join us in the bedroom, and times you dont. It just all depends on the person.
Bottom line as far as the sexual aspect goes is, we want someone that is flexible and moldable. Remember your prime focus will be domestic service, everything else will happen over time.
Potential Deal Breaker- We have a 6 month old baby girl. Its not something we can change; its just the way it goes. We understand that having a child thrown into the mix can limit things. It will be more of a challenge but I think well worth it. Any activities other than domestic duties will be done in private. We know that for most people this will be a deal breaker so to speak and thats fine. We believe in honesty and being upfront about who we are and our lifestyle.
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