I have enjoyed SM/BD in personal relationships for years but not in a 24/7 bdsm relationship.
I am older, but do not look it or act it.
I appreciate women who know what they need and are not afraid to tell me. I respect honesty and loyalty and cannot/will not tolerate liars and thieves. I do not like bigots and racists, the christian right can stay far,far away.I am outspoken and stubborn, but I've learned to walk away from problems that I can not solve. My public life is pretty much vanilla. I enjoy my vanilla life as much as I enjoy my private life. I've had my 15 minutes of fame-thank you very much! I'm rather cynical and have been known to be sarcastic but I really do have a good (if sometime warped)sense of humor.
I have traveled some(still do),Southeast Asia(Thailand-love it-my home is there, Hong Kong, Okinawa, Vietnam, Cambodia, Laos), Bali, much of the USA, lived and worked in the mountains of New Mexico, USA for years before moving back to Texas, then retiring to Thailand.
I'm not sure what some peoples idea of "formal" bdsm or a "D/s" relationship is all about but I do know what I enjoy and want in a personal relationship. I am not "searching" for anything or anyone. I am open to meeting someone for a short term or ?. In public I am usually a gentleman and respectful, in private I expect obedience and the willingness to be mine to do with what I want, withing reason. I do like ladies on a leash. Always, safe, sane and consensual.
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