My Ideal Person:
I would like to find a single male secure enough of himself to explore new things. A Ruby in a mountain of Rocks.. do you shine?

I cannot, with total honesty, define My ideal male (as I have not found him yet)..

I can, however, tell you what appeals to Me: I prefer taller men, I tend to attract blondes, but I do love dark hair and blue or green eyes (I find it very sensuous), Fit, intelligent, I also admit to being VERY attracted to long/thick endowments, however, I know talent counts as well.

I like witty, versatile, adventurous, articulate, educated... someone who I can stand to be around in the vanilla world.

I am seeking "The One", he that will appreciate being cherished by a strong woman. If you cannot wrap your head around what that would be like for you, move on.

I want to find a partner who is the master of his domain. He is strong, smart, successful, ambitious and charismatic. He leaves people with the assurance that he is in control. Perhaps he is even a little intimidating to them.

But he knows, and I know, that on his drive home, his palms moisten. He aches for my touch. He knows that his day is not totally fulfilling unless he lay asleep, exhausted, next to the woman who cherishes him above all others.

"Footfalls echo in the memory
Down the passage which we did not take
Towards the door we never opened
Into the rose garden."
- T.S. Eliot

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An addendum to this: I have always known I had submissive/switch itches, as I was initially introduced to this lifestyle as a submissive (Gor - red silk) many years ago. (For those who have never tried being submissive, you are missing a truly unique perspective into the mind of your slave.)

Since then, finding a man dominant enough to trust that much was an extreme rarity. Recently, the submissive within was re-awakened with a firm spanking. The slave heat can be almost overwhelming for me when in the presence of a very dominant Male.

What the future holds with the Awakener, I cannot say. But while I have no intention of giving up My own Domme urges as they come, I intend to continue exploring these submissive urges, so long denied.

However, do not underestimate Me. I will *not* be offering my submissive Gift to just *any* man. It takes a special man to call her out. I expect that *that* man, will appreciate my Domme nature as well, encouraging it in the wide world of Our Play.