My Ideal Person:
I'm looking for a man or woman or couple who can help me get into this lifestyle more. I've only experimented with it and find it fascinating. I'd like someone who doesn't mind bringing out the paddle, but is also mature enough to stop when the fun stops. There's no point in playing if the hurt isn't good.

I'm not looking for a serious relationship, but I'm not closed off to the idea. I really don't care for discrete relationships either as enjoy having people I can hang out with outside of the play arena and won't keep secrets from your significant other.

**Update 4/08**

Just because there seems to be confusion about what my profile seems to project and what I really am in person:
1. I'm shy
2. I won't fuck you just because you IM me.
3. I won't fuck you until I know you.
4. I'm female. I have insecurities.
5. I'm a huge geek.
6. I'm a homebody who prefers a few friends, but envies those with tons of friends.
7. I'm not a fashion whore
8. It takes me more than on session for my inner fuck machine to come out. I can be incredibly raunchy, but not until I really know you.
9. My hardcore pics were taken with someone I trusted immensely. It took him 2 years to get to that point.
10. I've been called an enigma.

Hopefully, that will clear up some preconceived notions that my profile might give. Any questions - ask. I answer truthfully.