I am classy and sassy; intelligent and engaging; fun loving and tender hearted; spoiled and giving; elusive and mysterious; passionate and loyal; but in no way a doormat nor a slave. I know myself well enough to state clearly and with absolute certainty that I am not always the most submissive of women... but am very sweetly submissive when given a strong, emotionally balanced and available man and a solidly established relationship.
I am not unattractive or a skinny bone; I have definate curves. I have strawberry blonde hair to the middle of my back and blue eyes. I do have pictures of my face and have no problem sharing them with men I chose to begin serious communication with.
I seek only real time. If you cannot provide contact information and information about who you are within a reasonable amount of time and/or cannot meet me, I will assume you are a married (or spoken for) man and will quickly move on. Until I look into your eyes, you are nothing but pixels on a screen – don’t become confused about the matter.
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My Ideal Person:
My ideal life partner is a TALL, fit, Caucasian, genuine, experienced MaleDom, between the ages of 37 and 50ish, who is bright, articulate, with a clear vision and world view, and very clear expectations and desires. He should be mature, safe, financially secure, intense, genuine, caring, patient, kind but firm, loving, fair and seeking a monogamous relationship with a febsub. A Dominant once told me "one of the most important things I need in my Dominant is one who will be rock-like in his consistency, regardless of how my emotional waves crash against him. That doesn't mean he is emotionally unavailable, but it does mean that he is personally centered and balanced." That Dominant was and still is completely correct.
The man for me must also be someone I can take home to my family without announcing our private life. He must be able to socialize and be accepted in my social circle (meaning my vanilla life) without "giving away" what transpires behind our closed doors; much like I expect I should fit well in his vanilla world. Our life behind closed doors is, and should remain, a sexy little secret between only the two of us ~ although whispering the thoughts that run through your mind while we are at some function makes the secret even sexier.
He will be classy, good looking and conservatively groomed. A man whom I can respect in all aspects of his life. It would be nice if he were versatile and could take afternoon tea with the Queen of England and appear as though he belonged there; yet be comfortable in sweat pants *grins* or boxer briefs ~ screaming vulgarities at the TV because Favre threw an interception on the opening drive of the most important game of the season, or perhaps threw one in overtime, during the playoffs, as Favre did in the 2003 season.
He must also be confident in his position in a relationship and be secure in knowing he has the control (when he does) without having to see it in the form of a kneeling submissive when he walks into a room, or a Sir uttered at the end of every statement. He should be comfortable asserting the control when he has obtained it as well.
Thanks for reading!
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