I am a switch, who is comfortable on either side of the paddle but I started out a bottom/brat who loves having fun, whether that means giving in to my inner child and playing with water pistols and slingshots or just being my normal sassy self. So, my approach to being a Top/Domme has a lot of playfulness to it. This is not, and never has been, the way I live my life. I am naturally dominant and can live quite happily in that role but I also need the release that comes from being a brat and getting into some healthy trouble.
If you are looking for someone who is going to be a mean, bitchy, humorless mistress, then you'd better keep looking. My primary interest in this lifestyle is spanking. It is a passion that I have had for many years and there is nothing more wonderful than a freshly warmed bottom. Okay, I lied. A hot, stinging, beet-red, freshly strapped ass is infinitely more wonderful. I am also interested in bondage, CBT & strap-on play, among other things.
It's about doing what feels right for each person in the relationship. Finding this point of satisfaction can be a very tricky thing. It's easy for things to get one-sided and that's not good for either person. Communication is the key to a successful relationship and as long as we are honest with one another about our needs, desires and feelings, things are going to work out.
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My Ideal Person:
I'm looking for friends who will take the time to get to know me. I love having fun and finding people with whom I can share that fun is my ultimate goal.
I've met a lot people in this world, both here and in other places. As a general rule, those I've met were good people and I do not regret meeting them. I'm still in communication with some but I've lost touch with others and that makes me a little sad sometimes. It makes me wonder where they are and what they are doing now.
I try to live by three rules -
~~Live my life without regret
~~Make amends when given the opportunity
~~Never miss the chance to tell someone I care about just how I feel.
I wish more people would do the same.
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