Once upon a time i had one of the most intense subbing experiences with a demure friend. She wore jeans and a t-shirt the whole time. It was the first time I ever really felt myself enter that mental space where I felt I was giving up my will. It was also the first time I ever encoutered a woman who knew she enjoyed the dominant role and knew how to use it. That experience brought my understanding of what I get from the scene to a new level.
Yes, I get turned on by shiny latex. Yes, a leather corset and pants, by offering protection to her body, enhances the vulnerability of my nudity. Yes, high heels and spikes look sharp and threatening. I'll always enjoy these things in scene, but I know there's more to erotic power exchange.
I'm a stable, single, well educated and well employed white guy, 37 years old, in good shape. I've got a lot of diverse interests, including martial arts, reading, music, ballroom dancing, good conversation, cooking and kink. I have a very submissive side, and some pretty wicked fantasies. I've had chances to explore these interests and I know that it's both the physical and mental aspects of B/D/S/M that I'm seeking.
I'm open to just making new friends or meeting occasional play partners, or something that turns into a longer relationship is also a possibility.
If I haven't lost you yet, and you like what you've read, I hope to hear from you!
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My Ideal Person:
A dominant woman who is experienced in the scene, knows what she wants, and knows how to use me to get it. Someone who can balance B/D, D/S, S/M, and the rest of life. Someone who can converse over lunch, balanced, intelligent and interesting.
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