SWEET MASTER TOM
I am Sweet Master Tom. The 'Sweet' indicates that I enjoy making my partners come. repeatedly. Until they are drained, exhausted, and beyond all rationality. And, it denotes that I myself, while still in control, enjoy doing the same. The 'Master' indicates that I am a dom, I am not interesting in 'playing' but in wringing out of my partners everything of themselves they can give... and then wringing them again, taking them beyond. In return for this, they get me. Not a mask, not a persona, not a play partner. Me. Tom. I am a sadist excited by screams, begging for mercy, misery, pain, tears, blood, and inducing the total loss of control.
I identify with animal predators. I have a highly rational mind, empathy, a conscience and am very well socialized. I enjoy cats, hunting, and not conflict but winning a conflict. In my psychic world, we are all struggling across the desert under the burning sun, I am leading us on, and I am going to lead us across to the palm trees and the oasis on the other side. Then we can rest. Not everyone will make it. But I will, and so will you. Once across the desert we will conquer the mountains until we reach the limitless blue sea beside the burning city, from which we will set sail. This is my world and I love it.
ERRATA
I own a slave. her name is Errata. I love her deeply and have her live with me. Ours is a BDSM relationship with the heart of this domination and submission. she is always submissive to me; and I am always dominant with her. With others, she has my permission to switch and she is an accomplished sadistic dom - lately she has discovered that if she ties up and beats one of our play partners thoroughly, then dips the poor girl's genitals in ice water, the girl comes immediately....
LYING DOWN WITH THE MONSTER
BDSM is not really, in my opinion, a chance to prove how normal we are, but a chance to walk into the stable - the one that is deep, dark, the one that stinks of animal smells, the one you can enter only through the cleft in the rock deep in the forest full of nightmare trees.
When you enter, you hear the monsters snort and piss and stamp their cloven hooves. They strain at you when they smell your excitement and your fear. You know what they want to do to you - or you don't and you don't care - it makes you sick and excited at the same time. You walk up to the most frightening monster and take it by the horns and say, 'I want you to ride me'. And you do it. You get down on all fours in the straw and you await your fate. Your hair falls over your eyes. You hear the hoof steps crunch the straw behind you. You feel his hot and frightening breath.
Afterwards you lie down with the monster and kiss his terrible face. You are devastated wondering, did I do that? How could I do that? Did he do that to me? How could he - what power and force. You are proud and horrified at the same time that, yes, you did. Yes, he did.
Yes, a lot of this for a lot of us is about all those atavistic dark feelings, hatreds, and fears. It is no accident that masochists are so often so willful and independent - think of what they bravely face. They face the monster and give themselves to him. In giving themselves to the monster, they tie the two of them together and they win his protection, his love, and his strength.
REDEMPTION
After youÂve been dragged into the pit, used, punished, taken through a total loss of control, you have to come back. While you were out there screaming in agony and bliss; school, job, friends and family were still there and you still have to deal with them.. I will bring you back. You will be changed. You will get what aftercare and forgiveness  what redemption  you need.
We are a lifestyle couple. We are smart, attractive, and committed. We live in Minneapolis, Minnesota. Our life combines the best of pansexual, swinger, and BDSM play. We are sociable, we eroticize our play, and we enjoy going to extremes.
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My Ideal Person:
You can be male, female, transgendered, or a couple; dominant, submissive, or switch. You should be pansexual and open to sharing partners.
You should be amenable to slavery, masochism, domation / submission, household service, and erotic play with groups. You must be healthy, fit, and intelligent. We are seeking persons who are willing to expand their limits, -- or ours! -- and who have high self esteem, along with a mind and a life of their own.
We are not seeking cross dressers, cyber, or those who are merely curious.
Married or committed partners are more than welcome; so long as all partners are interested.
Age, race, gender all are open. Let's email, chat, socialize, and...
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