My life is a whirl wind....
About Me:
I dont really fit one label. Im not quite a tomboy; I like bugs and situations, can change a tire on a car, drive a stick (shift for those perverts who need the explanation) Im not afraid to get dirty, I own a power drill, and an odd assortment of tool (tools! Not toys). Yet on the other side I love wearing dresses, dont know anything else about cars, Im horrible with my tools. Im almost a hippy, I sometimes wear long dresses and loss fitting clothes, I smoke cloves once and a while, I went to Evergreen state college. On the same note I shower daily, eat meat, and like going out to fancy dinners. Id be a nerd, or a geek if only I were better at computers. Others would say Im a care giver because I tend to be sensitive, compassionate, and, well, giving, but sometimes I just want someone to take care of me, and I rather like to be spoiled rotten. (Treat me like a princess and I'll treat you like a Prince) I love to cook, but I kind of suck at cleaning. I have a sense of humor, however it is a little quirky at times. Im pretty comfortable with my BDSM lifestyle, but I sure as hell dont want my mother to know about it! Im as much of a masochist as I am a sadist, at least I think I am, Im sure someone will prove me right or wrong some day.
Im pretty easy going, I like to just kick back watch a movie, talk whatever. In social situations I tend to take control and am rather dominant. I have strange energy, a few people hate it, and I can have instant friction with people. For lot of people they seem to be draw to me, much quicker then I am to them which can make things a bit awkward. Sometimes with a little time, I warm up to them, other times I just dont click with them. With a few people I seem to great energy, and we click really well. Ive been very grateful to have those people in my life.
BDSM and me:
So Im a switch. I play with boys, I play with girls. I top those I have a good connection with, bottom to those who's energy feels right, and submit to very few (especially right now) I love bondage, S/m, heck I love almost all of it really. Im a huge fan of little rituals, and big rituals. I like to be challenged, and love a good mindfuck.
*note* I'm not looking for a sex partner. In fact sex really isn't high on my list. So if you want a bed buddy I am /NOT/ your girl.
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My Ideal Person:
I haven't a clue. It really depends on the energy. I'm certainly not looking for a Top online, that doesn't work for me. I doubt I'd be to taken with a submissive online either. All the energy is in one on one contact. It's about being friends first, and then seeing what comes out of it.
I will not respond to profiles that A) have a cock shot (only gay men are interested in cock shots)  don't have a picture.
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