I know who I am.... a Dominant in heart/soul/mind. I have been at the bottom of the barrel, will never be there again - Am WHO I AM.......
We all learn based of our experiences good or bad.
As time has surpassed in my journey, I have found great pleasure in being a Top. Being a Top has given me great pleasure of learning my abilities and the joy it gives me. I enjoy masos since I am a very sadistic person. I can be your best friend / worst enemy. I will help you grow as an individual. Each encounter as we interact will always be a learning experience helping you grow.
When I do find that one person, I am committed to that person, until all matters can not be resolved. There are many ventures of this path that I still have yet to cross, and do hope to cross with the right individual/s.
I have a bubbly demeanor at times, and other times I am just a subdued person. I get straight to the point and am very blunt. Life has a way to alter my moods at times. I know many people in RT - just ask and I will let you know.
I do not "play" or have "sex" with anyone. I am very careful about who I have interactions with. So if you want a slut look elsewhere. I do not do drugs, and practice safe sex. Play will happen when the right time occurs and with the person, AND when I am ready to play. For me to play with anyone there MUST be a huge connection heart, mind and soul. Being friends with benefits will not work for me. Nor does casual play work for me.
A bit about me:
Definition of a brat:
Beautiful
Reserved
Abominable
Temperamental
I am a mom first, and I take care of me. Currently my kids and my health have a top spot that I can not step aside at this time.
I also take care of my friends in the process of my daily duties. I currently have many things on my plate of life. Each one has their own place on my long list and each move around in the ranks at any given time during the month; which includes family, traveling, friends, socializing, sports, racing, bowling, exercising, meditating, being a hermit, reading, online gaming, you name it. My life can be very complicated so patience with me is a virtue.
I can be a mentor/guide/counselor/teacher to many within and outside of the lifestyle. I am friends to many who have my honest friendship. My life is to be a guide to those who seek guidance and to show them what they are looking for. I am not an expert, but I can show them places they can go for answers, and do my best to help them with the answers I know.
I love to bounce ideas off others to help gain more knowledge than just a one-sided opinion. I can be the devils advocate, as well as having a sweet side to me, when it comes to talking and sharing ideas. 
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My Ideal Person:
I am looking for someone who is honest, honorable, caring, trustworthy, and most of all one that can take care of me. For - I should be your focus, most, if not all, of the time. I know my limits; will stand up for what she believes in what is true to her; and if she has to, will walk away.
I have seen a lot, know a lot, and have been through a lot within this lifestyle/even in vanilla aspect. This lifestyle is very important to me, and it should be important to you as well.
One that understands the balance in a relationship. Each person has needs that must be met in many different areas and for Me one that can give and take in many areas might be the best match.
One must respect me at all times. One must be able to understand my low points and work with me when I am at my low, and understand them as well. Fighting me, only creates more pain on both parties.
Main point - communication is a major key to any relationship I have with anyone..... if you can't communicate - don't bother talking to me.
Ms Trad
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