New experiences and challenges make me feel alive. I enjoy writing, hiking & geocaching, nature, crafty projects and thrive around other creative types. Leading an active lifestyle and often volunteer and participate in local BDSM events. I strive to be continually evolving - working the path by training my body and mind. As a student of chado (Japanese Way of Tea), meditation, mindfulness and yoga, cultivating compassion and strength is very important to me. I also enjoy museums, concerts, theater and opera. I'd rather be outdoors and active and rarely watch tv or movies.
My main interests are power exchange and service. My submission comes from a place of strength and devotion and is intertwined with my spiritual path. Play wise - I especially like rope / bondage, body worship, Daddy/girl, energy work, objectification and rough body play. I'm loyal, obedient, honest and function well as a major domo; competent, anticipatory, intelligent and fast on my feet. Some of my favorite ways to serve are bootblacking, massage, cooking, tea service and pampering. I thrive when serving someone who inspires my respect and devotion.
Long term, I am hoping to find a Master who wants a monogamous relationship. I am not interested in one-time play, the joy and intensity are in the mental connection and power exchange. Respect and obedience grow over time. I am healing from the recent ending of an intense long-term power exchange relationship, so am taking to focus on myself and my path.
In my eyes, lifting a flogger to beat someone does not make you a Dom. While I enjoy the physicality of BDSM, the greater allure is the mental connection, spiritual aspects and learning - for me that is where the real magic happens.
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My Ideal Person:
You're an experienced Dominant gentleman between 35 - 45 seeking a long term monogamous power exchange relationship. You know the difference between dominant and dominate. Ideally you are openly kinky and active in the lifestyle. I do not play with novices. If your main photo is a cock shot I will not respond to you. If you truly believe that is your best asset, there is very little chance we are a good match.
You have been working your own path and have things to teach, as well as being open to learning. You enjoy being served, intellectual discourse, cultural events, lead an active lifestyle. You want to cultivate a dynamic built on mutual respect and are focused on growing you submissive into a happier, stronger and healthier human. Your ideal relationship is one full of laughter, learning, affection and joy. You are stable emotionally and financially - but know you'd like to find happiness with submissive at your side.
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