Since moving to Florida 4 years ago I have finally been given the chance to start exploring this lifestyle that has been denied to me in the past. To be truthful, I am having a difficult time finding those that are REAL within the lifestyle. I'm tired of the players, want to be's, and fakes as well as the 80 year old men who has the fantasy to tie up a twenty something female and have his way with her. (yes, I get those!)
One thing I have discovered is everyone has their own opinion about what the D/s lifestyle is or isn't. I have been letting people try to convice me my idea of what I want is "wrong." Please let me clarify right now who I am as a submissive.
I am not looking for an online fantasy Dom/Master. I am real time only. I don't believe in the Gorean ways.
My need in a D/s relationship is to be pleasing to my Dom.
I don't like to be called names, I don't like to be put down. That's not a turn on. I don't like acting like a puppy dog, I don't like to put on a nurse's uniform.
I have a very agressive nature...I AM NOT A DOORMATT! I like being able to talk to my Dom like an intelligent human being on many subjects. I like being able to playfully tease my Dom. I like cuddling (aka...I'm a cuddle slut), I like doing non D/s B/D activities.
As you can see, I've developed a sense of who I am as a submissive. I would like to learn to improve this image of who I am, to become a better submissive and to better please my Dom!
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My Ideal Person:
I am looking for someone who is real and sincere in this lifestyle. I am not seeking players, I am not seeking some guy who gets thrills beating women. I am seeking someone who wants an intelligent sub who wants to please her Dom.
Being realistic, I'm not worried about age. I have found that younger tends to mean unexperienced...not always the rule. I know with age comes experience.
In the long run I'm looking for a meaningful D/s relationship. However, right now I'm not ready to accept a collar...
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