Just got Married on 05/05/07! WOO HOO! We have decided to have an Open Relationship. He's Vanilla,but I'm a S/switch,and he doesn't have any interest in 'other activities' that I enjoy. I'm a BBW so if you are NOT attracted to this body-type then please DO NOT respond, ok? No use of wasting my time nor yours. Even though I am seeking a S/switch I would give consideration to a Gentle Dom who would allow me from time to time to be Domme in certain situations/scenes. Naturally much negotiation & discussion would have to take place 
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My Ideal Person:
Would like to meet someone local (in the Worcester County area). That means someone who LIVES locally,not just works locally. Even though I am in an Open Relationship I do have some ground rules that need to be adhered to. My time is limited to both our schedules. I'm seeking a play partner who's a S/switch, but isn't into Edge Play whatsoever. You would ONLY be MY play partner since my Husband is Vanilla & Straight. Some playtime activities I enjoy are: Light Bondage;Spanking;Blindfolding;Toy use (Dildos;Vibes;Anal beads;Strap ons);Gags and of course really great sex! LOL! I am well read about BDSM, and D/s,and in my past have done a bit of S/switching with
old boyfriends. I want someone who also has a great sense of humor;is GENTLE;likes to experiment;who understands Safe,Sane & Consensual, and the D/s mindset. I want to Play, but I want to Play SAFELY, and INTELLIGENTLY so I can have some wonderful experiences. Would also like to meet a man who can hold my interest OUTSIDE of the bedroom as well. I love good conversations about Politics,Art,Books,Movies etc.
If you can't hold a decent conversation with me then please - DO NOT contact me, ok? I'm taking my search VERY seriously, and I need to get to know you a WHOLE lot BEFORE we start discussing Playtime & Activities. This means exchagingin in-depth emails (not like 20 of them, but a good amount) that could possibly lead to phone calls that would HOPEFULLY lead to meeting face to face. This is the way I met 1 lover of mine, and it worked out QUITE well. If you're not into emailing, i.e. taking the TIME to email me about who you are as a person, then maybe this isn't for you. Wannabe Subs,Doms & S/switchs hold NO interest for me.
"Engage the Mind and the Body will follow" Oh yes, by the way - Good Grammar & Spelling count! 
On a side note - It seems some viewers of my profile think I am Male & a cross-dresser. Sorry, but that's not the case. Also, even though I have no problem with Men who cross-dress - some even look BETTER than most women! - in my personal sexual relationships I am not open to that whatsoever. No offense, ok? We all like what we like
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