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I've known for years that I'm a sub though I often appear otherwise. I'm adventurous and playful but I'm not looking for a series of one night stands. I don't know what its like for you Doms, but doing things of a submissive nature is comforting while still being an incredible turn on. I feel I respond better to praise and positive reinforcement (with the threat of some real punishment if I don't behave) than I would to "Yo Bitch, suck my cock!" or being forced physically to do something. Now I'm not saying I don't like giving oral, I do, ALOT, and I'm not saying I don't like pain, I do.. not sure how much, but I know I do. Right now I'm a work in progress. I had a bit of health trouble which is finally clearing up so I'm taking advantage of the good feelings to better myself, my health and my looks.
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My Ideal Person:
I'm completely unsure of what I want other than someone who is dominant yet caring. I know I DON'T want.. someone with poor grammar, someone on drugs, someone who is an Ass in Dom's clothing, or an abuser, been there, done that, threw the tshirt away after i tore it into little bitty pieces. I need someone who can be mentally stimulating outside of the scene, someone who cherishes me and who I respect and adore. I realize it takes time to develop such a relationship and I'll probably kiss a few frogs. But said frogs, had better be able to take no for an answer. While I am a submissive, I'm not submissive to just anyone.
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