Submission is what is at the core of me. It isn't an extra curricular activity, something I do to titilate my life or spice up my sex life. I don't have to work hard at it. I am driven to please and I do it very naturally. My mind is where you need to engage me first. I have a healthy appreciation of depravity, debauchery, kink and all else that encompasses bdsm but a d/s dynamic more powerful than all of that is what I crave first and foremost and I want to be valued for that. I function perfectly well in the world but without the dynamic within which to please, I'm incomplete.
I love good company, good conversation, unreasonable laughter, unexpected opportunities, delight in life's surreal moments and nurture a passion for music. I'm rubbish at making decisions and have an aversion to second guessing people. Please don't make me!
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My Ideal Person:
Someone who can inspire and challenge me, someone I will respect with a healthy fear and who will respect me with integrity and care. Someone who has enough time, energy and committment to build on that relationship. I'm in the fortunate position of being able to be flexible about specific circumstances. I lead a busy life which doesn't require a man to prop it up and I don't necessarily need any relationship to be 24/7 or even exclusive so long as you are able to invest enough to make the dynamic work. I don't want or need to be micro managed but I do want and need regular contact and to be able to call on you in the middle of the night if I need to even though that's unlikely to happen! I do need you to be close enough to build on a relationship without complicated planning and long periods of time between meetings. Life is just too short! Having said that, my life is such now that there is nothing stopping me from physically relocating in the right circumstances.
These things are so hard to write. I really don't take myself too seriously for the most part but this is important to me.
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