My Ideal Person:
The right person(s) for Me may be new to the world of D/s or they may already have some experience. They will be polite, clean and healthy (submission can be physically as well as mentally demanding).
Please have a few brain cells. I do NOT tolerate fools! They do not need to bring anything other than themselves, as I have My share of the "toys of the trade". If there are special requests, they must be agreed upon in advance.
They will do a bit of research and be aware of their own limits-there are checklists for newbies. I will make mine clear enough.
Initial contact will be through alt, then e-mail, then in person--if I allow them that far. My safety and yours are important. I have high standards!

I am married, however, My husband will NOT be a part of O/our play. Ever!

At times I will require this person to be nothing more than a piece of “meat”—to be used. At others she will be a personal servant (massages, manicues, pedicures etc). There will be learning that will happen.
If all you want to do is lay/stand/sit with your legs open and have Someone flog, dildo or plug your ass or pussy, then you will simply say so. If this is your first experience with D/s, you will tell Me that as well. I will adjust My expectations accordingly.

I enjoy what I do ~evil grin~. As some wise person once said, "It's better to give than to receive"....well I'm looking to give the right sub: sore nipples, a red ass, a well used pussy and enable them to be the best submissive (and person) that they can be!! In fact, I demand it.