I'm a creatively cruel sadistic Dom. I'm not going to list here all the things I enjoy - the fact of submission is more important than an individual kink - but I do require that you take pain for me - though that's relative, not absolute. It's the tears you shed, not the volume of blows, that counts.
Some types of submission are about service; others are about the complete psychological opening up/penetration of the sub - as though both body and soul are there to be invaded, violently if necessary, and the sub has no privacy whether physically or emotionally. I have always found myself more attracted to the latter type of submission.
For all that, I am both affectionate and considerate.
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My Ideal Person:
I'm looking for a physically and intellectually highly attractive woman - both are very important to me. You won't submit to just anyone, and when you do, it's with a Dom you can look up to and respect in any number of ways - and with a Dom who you can have a real world relationship and do normal cultural/social things as well.
So you want someone who is interesting to be with socially, but you like the anticipation of knowing that at any moment the cruelty that lurks beneath my surface will come to the fore.
You don't have to be particularly experienced, though that does save time ! but you shouldn't want to be taking just "baby steps". And you shouldn't be looking for a relationship just because getting tied up and beaten is kinda cool and arouses you but because you really want to hand yourself over to a man who will do that to you.
I'm definitely looking for someone I can be with for a very long time - I'm not going to say "settle down with" as that sounds too complacent and inert, but you'll know what I mean.
And you have to like cats. Not negotiable.
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