I am LadyFire, a tall, voluptuous, 55 year old redhead. I have been away from the lifestyle for a while, but it continues to lure me back. I am seeking a big, sexy, intelligent male Top or Switch. I have explored some of my own Top fantasies, and although interesting, I still find myself wanting to be either the one who gives up the control or to meet as equals. Spanking, particularly OTK, will, and always has been my favorite activity. Pain is a sensual, erotic bridge to sexual pleasure, and the combination of the two is what compels me to keep coming back to this lifestyle. I am creative, articulate, and have done a lot of erotic writing in the past. A lot of the allure of this kind of relationship is mental, and emotional, and begins in the mind. Seduce the mind, the body follows. Pain for the sake of pain is pointless in my mind. Sex without a mental or emotional connection, although it can be physically satisfying, is not emotionally satisfying. And the constant battle between Master and sub is exhausting. I am not into the posturing of a Master and his slave or sub, the expectations, the rules, the games, the clashing of wills.
The relationship between a Top and a bottom is a sexual one in my mind, an expression of desire, of want, of need, of seduction, and confined to the sexual arena. It's about mutual respect, sometimes meeting as equals, both as Tops, with aggressive, animalistic sex the goal. Others times a show of power and control, taking the bottom to a magical place outside of herself. And sometimes it's just plain old vanilla lovemaking.
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My Ideal Person:
I'm looking for a male Top or Switch. Someone to explore fantasies with, to experience sexual desires with, to have fun with. I want a man to play with, to experiment with, to teach and learn with. I've been involved in this lifestyle for over 8 years now, and have learned much, about the lifestyle and about myself. It's an ever evolving thought process, one of growth and constant change. I seek a creative, intelligent, lustful, sexual man, who is comfortable with himself, has time available, and interested in more than a one time meeting.
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