I love technology, and have been a proud computer geek ever since I first I got my hands around my first PC. I work as a Senior Server Admin in mostly Windows environments (boo Apple), am an expert with almost any Smartphone/PDA, and design/configure/repair servers, networks, workstations. I love cartoons like Metalocalypse, South Park, and Robot Chicken, and have two cats that I couldn't live without. I used to rave every weekend in college, still love massives and wish I went more often, but still love to hit up 1015 to give a killer lightshow when my schedule allows it.
I've always been one of the guys and really can't stand hanging around most women because they are fucking annoying. I've enjoyed topping my male roommate at various times 3-5 years ago, but it doesn't seem to excite me anymore. Plus, I always feel like I don't know how to top properly since he's had way more previous experience bottoming with men than I have topping him. I've enjoyed watching him with another man and have joined in on a few occasions since the third was bi.
I really loved it when I switched a few of times, but he is naturally submissive and hasn't been interested in 'overthrowing' me again. Although I'm naturally assertive, I've never been one to go bar-hopping (other than for drinking and do I LOVE to drink) or trying to 'hook-up' with a guy, so I feel awkward and unsure of myself in my pursuit. This is my first attempt at trying to get involved in this scene by contacting total strangers.
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My Ideal Person:
I'm not exactly sure what I'm looking for other than experimenting as a bottom/sub with a guy, but am open to a lot of possibilities. I'd feel more comfortable around a guy with common interests like computers, drinking, clubbing/raving, and getting into trouble with fun & random activities (I?ll try anything once). He definitely needs to be comfortable with the existing friend relationship I have with my male roommate/BF. I've referred to him as my 'boyfriend' in public to avoid giving a lengthy explanation of our complex relationship, but it's completely open for both of us and we?re not anything more than friends at this point.
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