My Ideal Person:
I'm a submissive woman, but do not get me wrong.
I am not a weakling, I'm intelligent, proud and strong.

I can take care of myself my submission is my choice.
I'm a very strong-willed woman who knows how to use her voice.

Then why, you may ask, do I choose to give up control?
To allow another the power over my body, heart and soul?

There's a certain freedom that I cannot quite explain;
It's trust, loyalty and devotion It's passion, pleasure and pain.

It's in the wonder of knowing that I'm always cared for by Another.
I call Him my Master but He is also Mentor, Friend, and Lover.

He anticipates my wants, He knows my every need.
And I know that my best interests are at the heart of His every deed.

My heart swells with pride as He sits tall and proud in His chair;
His loving girl kneeling at His feet, His hand resting possessively in my hair.

I kneel before my Master with pride So please, do not look upon me with pity.
For, if asked, I will tell you this is exactly where I wish to be!!

SM is not about suffering, SM is about service.
SM is not about humiliation, SM is about humility.
SM is not about pain, SM is about being present.
SM is not about being used, SM is about being of use.
SM is not about control, SM is about letting go.
SM is not about you, SM is about giving others.
SM is not about abuse, SM is about acceptance.
SM is not about proving anything, SM is about being real.
SM is not about contempt, SM is about respect.
SM is not about how things look, SM is about how things feel.
SM is not about denial, SM is about being open.
SM is not about punishment, SM is about discipline.
SM is not about being unable to escape, SM is about being commited.
SM is not about submission, SM is about obedience.
SM is not about pleasure, SM is about happiness.
SM is not about sex, SM is about love.