I am a service-oriented, masochistic, smart-mouthed, submissive, equal-opportunity attention whore with an emerging switchy side.
What turns me on? Intelligence, humor, kindness, dominance, generosity of spirit, and good hands. Well-fitting three-piece suits. Good social skills. A brain that works like mine.
Turn-offs include stupidity, arrogance, bad grammar, immaturity, social/political conservatism and libertarianism.
I am a community leader in the DC BDSM scene, and I have no interest in a relationship with someone who refuses to be part of the public scene (public play isn't necessary, but you've got to be willing to come out to events).
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My Ideal Person:
Be smart. Be funny. Be nice. Be a gentleman. Take yourself too seriously and the chances are very good I won't take you seriously at all. Treat me disrespectfully and you'll get the same in return.
Send me an email that's got more to it than "hi" or "you're pretty." It's nice that you think I'm pretty, and sweet that you wanted to share that. But surely you can manage more in conversation? You can spend as much time as you like composing an email, you can even take the time to spell-check and proof-read it. Prove to me you can hold your own with me in conversation, because while my tones are indeed dulcet, you'll get sick of them pretty fast if you can't keep up.
Woo me. It's been done before, it's entirely possible and totally worth it. (there's a great line about Cancers: "I play hard to get but I'm really so easy to keep" trufax) I am at my core a romantic, despite the veneer of cynicism my past heartbreaks have given me. I crave not only deep fall-to-my-knees submission but also head-over-heels love.
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