Greetings and Hope you are having a Happy Day!!!
Just an update - I have been here on Alt over two years now and just celebrated my one year anniversary with my subbie, major. It has been almost a year since the terrible car accident that almost took major's leg. This last year has been a challenge and I want to thank my friends here from the Socal room for being there for me and major and just being the wonderful people that they are.
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I have made some wonderful friends here, was in a 24/7 poly relationship where my slaveheart was released but it was not meant to be....and have some amazing people in my life right now that love and live the Lifestyle..a few are very new on their journey while others are ahead of me...and each one has brought something special to my life that I cherish every day.
I am not actively seeking to make a "connection" right now but always, always have the willingness to meet new people and if there is a need, be of service any way I can. Usually this means helping people connect to the local scene, helping beginners know where to go to learn how to do and experience all the wonderful things I have....or helping someone from out-of-town find something happening in the community while they are visiting the Orange County/Los Angeles area.
I can usually be found in the Socal room....please stop in and meet some of the most wonderful people here at Alt...get questions answered....make new friends....just hang out and see what the weekend was like for the Alt family after a weekend out at the local Dungeons and perhaps hear recounts of wonderful scenes and see the comraderie that can be attained when we all come together as a family...a community....who knows perhaps you will come out to one of the local munches or socials and meet others like yourself or reconnect with old friends.....I have personally ran into a number of old friends I had lost touch with over the years....
In case you missed it...I AM HERE TO MAKE FRIENDS....MEET NEW PEOPLE.....I want and expect nothing more
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Below is a sampling of some of the activities I have participated in:
TPE
Hot wax
Water sports
Flogging
Cat o'nine
Single tail
Electrical devices - tens, violet wand, stun guns
Japanese rope bondage
Breath play
Mummification
Genetortue
Play piercing
Knife play
Vampire gloves
Handcuffs
Caning
Punishment
Paddling
Serious spanking
Bondage,Bondage,Bondage
Sensory Deprivation
I am sure I have left something out....
and my least favorite - clamps
I am a R.A.C.K. Player...if you dont know what this is..come into the Socal room and ask me..I will be happy to explain it to you.
Trust, Honor & Respect a must!!!!!
DISCLAIMER - the alt.com fetish list does list anything I may have an interest in or have seen done - just because it is on the list does NOT mean I do it.
Before assuming I am totally into something - check out the full view and see what my response is - if you talk to me I will answer truthfully. Just as an example - Anal Sex is on my list - I have Performed Anal Sex on others and have had it done to me - but due to personal reasons I am not active that way at the current time.
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My Ideal Person:
Below is my profile from nearly two years ago when I was still bottoming......I now have a wonderful subbie boy living with me and have all the challenges I can handle with him.....
Note: I am leaving this old part of my profile in because it is part of who I am - I am proud of the years I spent as a bottom/slave and I now perform some of these same activities on my sub and will do many more as we grow and learn together.
Prefer someone who is active in the local community and/or willing to play in public at private clubs & Dungeons.
Someone who is experienced. And creative.
Be willing to learn things and improve existing skills if needed.
Has tried things out on himself - if you can't take it -I don't want you doing it to me!!!
OK - bet this is more then you straight Dom's can handle - look - if you want to play with me and you have never let yourself feel what we as bottoms/subs go through - then you have to be very experienced to play with me. I am very spoiled - my ex mentored with some of the best in the Leather community and he is very well known and respected. I have bottomed to some of these same people.
I am a true pain slut - I enjoy the headspace I get into as I adapt and move on to greater limits - I like the challenge of taking more - I like submitting for the duration of the scene and letting go of control for a while......
You will have trained and/or Mentored with an experienced Top - not learned out of a book or the internet. Have taken classes and gone to workshops in the community to improve your skill.
Must play in public at private clubs or Dungeon!!!!!
The above is NON-NEGOTIABLE!!!
I will not subject my body to the thrills of SM except in the safety of the private dungeons and clubs that are available to play in. After I know I can trust you private play is possible and highly desired. But any type of scening I will not do if you are not willing to go out with me to a private club or dungeon - at the least you have got to know people in the community so I can verify that you are safe to play with - and I know a shitload of people so I will be able to do this unless there is some elite group of kinky underground I have not gotten into yet - and I will probably know people that know if such a thing exists - so no bull shit.
I play hard and take a lot and will not risk my physical or mental well-being on someone who is potentially dangerous.
If you are in the scene it should please you that I regard myself this highly and you will know from where I speak.....
Other qualities hoped for:
Patient,Kind & Compassionate.
Twisted and skilled at mindfucking.
If you think my finickiness over play is too much, you won't be able to Dom me.
If you can't appreciate my devious nature, and respond to it as needed, you won't be able to Dom me.
If you can't let me be right about something I am knowledgeable in, you won't be right for me.
You will have to be strong enough for me to feel safe letting go around.
The kind of quite strength that comes from true confidence and natural ability, know what you want and understand the dance of Power Exchange. But be flexible enough to allow a strong, confident girl into your life...
Physical strength certainly - I can hold my own and like to get physical - play wrestle and sparring...seems that some of the passive arts I have learned have other uses....lol
>>>>>>And you have to be a giver - a true partnership framed within the Lifestyle dynamics would be fun to strive for........
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