I am a single 48 yr. old woman who discovered the joy of TPE at a very young age. However, as with many of us, it took the internet for me to make a true connection: How to get from point A to point B. Top is my sexual polarity and sexual identity. It is a relief to have such concreteness in an area that most humans have angst about. I enjoy the out-of-doors immensely and rely on nature to rejuvenate me when my perspective is skewed. Consequently, I know how to handle my own upsets, my own moods. This should be comforting to know.
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My Ideal Person:
I seek someone who is low key in reactions to the world in general. Someone who has learned some of the important lessons in life and is comfortable with themselves. (Of course, who the hell wants someone who's NOT comfortable with themselves? I should strike that line.) He should be happy as a bottom, he need not be a slave. I am not an Owner. Bdsm is the means by which I interact intimately with those I have great affection for (and am not related to), and is ultimately a conduit to that long lasting loving friendly relationship.
Please note: I am not interested in a switch or former dominants.
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