Well I believe that for a BDSM relationship to actually work the base of it must be vanilla. No one can be scene all the time..People need and want the squishy things..Being told they're loved held and such..Its vanilla just more,more trust more open and such..I also think that a "Dom/me" is just as much the "sub's" as the sub is the Dom's if that makes sense but I don't agree with poly because in my head its cheating (I'm not saying I'm right about what I'm saying just what I believe)Now I will get the emails saying that a sub has limited rights and shouldn't feel cheated and such well thats not true people have feelings and if you hurt someone they will feel it..Now thats that is mostly out of the way and by no way all that I believe just the general idea
And I do realize that my little rant will probaly make no sense at all..But keep in mind it just gets worse from here..
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What I'm actually looking for..Conversation mostly to stimulate me you must go through my mind first if it goes from there great..But I'm not looking for the typical one night stands I can get laid way easier then posting a profile on here..A connection is what I want if that can be gained fantastic be it romanticly involved or friendship.
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