Note: I've primarily moved to Collarme.com where I prefer the community aspect and the discussion forums.
Since I've been getting some winks and notes from folks who really aren't even close to what I'm looking for, I'm going to be up-front here: I'm a female dominant, not a submissive, not a bottom. I am looking only for those individuals who see erotic slavery as part of their identity and are willing and looking to be part of a household that focuses on mutual responsibility, growth, and happiness. Experience is not necessary, but being serious about Ds is. Bisexuality is necessary at this time because I want someone who can fit in well. Please only people ages 20-35 -- I have to think about my entire household and who would fit into it well.
My name may be familiar if you are a fan of non-traditional Femdom erotica -- I've had three collections of my work published. I currently have one slave but have vacancies for up to two more. I have been doing BDSM seriously for eight years and have been an active member of several SM organizations both in the Midwest and in New York City. I do not cater to fetishes or fantasies; I do Ds and SM for myself. I interact with my submissives differently, based on our relationship needs and individual personalities. I am married but polyamorous -- my husband knows and approves of my partners before I acquire them. Likewise, my current slave will be consulted.
Applicants must be able to travel to my place of residence for training (I live in Bloomington Indiana). Applicants must also schedule training around my schedule since I am a busy, busy woman.
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My Ideal Person:
Specifically looking for two people who besides fitting the below criteria also fit into these roles:
1) bisexual who is into service and enjoys bondage to serve me and to play with my current slave in his bondage sessions
2) woman interested in service and who has a bit of top in her so she can be a occasional nanny figure to my husband's fetishes but always under my authority
Sincere, submissive, ethical, and centered individual who can jump through several hoops to prove worth and who takes training and service seriously:
I'm looking for: someone who can commit to at least 14 biweekly face-to-face training sessions to see if any Ds relationship is possible. A submissive whose true goal is to serve and to push his/her limits -- sex may not become an issue so that should not be an important goal or requirement for you. Honesty is a must! I prefer someone younger than myself; no one born before 1960 (that's a hard limit of mine for very personal reasons)
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