if you met me in the vanilla world, you would know me as well-educated, articulate, creative, witty. i seem like a soccer mom or perhaps a college instructor...
and yet. . .if you discover the real me, you know i'm a pleasure+pain slut, that i try hard to be submissive in certain situations, and that i'm aching to please, hoping to be taken to that place where everything else melts away.
i am intrigued by the mind fuck. the mental side of bdsm. the spiritual connection. the combination of tantric sensuality and kinky depravity.
i love books, movies, and a lively discussion about politics or religion over a pint at local pub or a cup at a funky coffee house. i adore learning new things, seeing new places, expanding my horizons. i love to travel and meet people, whether it's to an exotic locale or a nearby small town.
i'm tall (5'8"), voluptuous. rubenesque. light golden brown hair with strawberry blonde highlights. curvy in the right places. blue eyes behind sexy-librarian glasses.
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My Ideal Person:
two things that attract and keep my attention are intelligence and a sense of humor.
age not terribly important, although even now, i'm a little girl at heart and tend to be most attracted to someone near my age or older.
i usually am attracted to someone well-educated (through school or life). i need that cerebral stimulation, to be able to talk about not only kink but also everything from college football to u.s. politics to the future of the church to saturday morning cartoons from our childhood.
i love to laugh. jon stewart and craig fergeson are on my celebrity "freebie" list.
i hope you are reasonably fit, but in the long term, i believe more in the attraction of the minds.
i do need to be discreet for a multitude of reasons, so that's very important. (but not for too much longer.
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