My Ideal Person:
OK let me try again. I am not looking for a fulltime submissive. I won't be available to chat with you every day, I have other things going on in my life so I don't get online every day. Sometimes I might be online but this doesn't mean I'm available unless I have my available sign up. Why? Because sometimes I'm at work or sometimes I'm in a situation where I am not free to chat to a submissive or I may be talking to someone else. Hell sometimes I'm playing backgammon or domino's just relaxing.

So what I am looking for is this. I want both a male and a female that understand that what I am looking for right now is someone that I can learn rope on. I have had a bit of experience but not much and I want to get more. Yes this could develop into more of a "play or serve" situation but the key word is develope.

Don't expect me to take you on after just chatting a bit either. I need to get to know you as I hope you would want to get to know me before you allow me to tie you up.

So if this suits what you are looking for please contact me.

I am now activily looking for a couple of submissive play partners. I would like atleast one man and one women. A couple would be fine. I do expect at some point in the "relationship" to get both the male and female together to as well. Preferably this person would live in Prescott, Sedona area. If you live in Phoenix area it just means that there will probably be less times I am able to get down there.

I am very picky about who I play with and so I'll put my criteria. If you can't deal with this then don't bother to contact me. Save us both some time.
First and most important you must realize that this is a play situation. I don’t need nor do I want a permanent relationship type thing right now.

You must have your own home, not live with your mother, sister, etc. Prefer no kids at home either. Not that I mind kids but I don’t think there should be any restrictions put on our sessions due to worries about kids. You must be willing to play in your home. I will never bring you back to my home.

You must keep yourself clean. I will not even consider playing with anyone that when I touch them my hand feels like it needs to be scoured clean. Before each play session I will expect you to shower.

You must be in good physical shape as I don’t need to have to explain to emergency personal why you are passed out and tied up with ropes. I’d prefer someone that is single or married but the other partner is aware and this I’d need confirmed by me talking to them myself. Between the ages of 25 and 50 would be ideal but would consider others.

You must understand that this is NOT about sex to me. This is about D/s. Some of the things I would be doing with you are bettering my rope skills, floggings, wax play, possible electric play, service etc. I will of course discuss your limits etc.

You must understand that while we are in a “no play” situation or a more public such as a munch or coffee I can be very sweet and non-demanding the moment we enter into a “scene” I expect you to be just what you should be and that is submissive. I will not tolerate anyone topping from the bottom. If that is what you get pleasure from find someone else.

I will not agree to play with you via the internet. I believe firmly that a “friendship and respect” of sorts must first be obtained by meeting for coffee, at munches etc.

I would like it if you would be willing to attend some events that are more public such as the APEX dungeon nights.

I would also like it if you would be willing to allow me to take photo’s. I do understand the need to keep your identity a secret and therefore would have no problem hiding your face with hats, hoods other various creative ways or even the old smudging out with photoshop. These would be for my own use or if I had your permission to use occasionally on a BDSM website. Of course your permission and your feeling of security are utmost.

I will also consider playing on an occasional basis with a couple that are Dom(me)/sub. However, I don’t want to get into anything that is gonna cause theatrics later.

As I said I’m very picky and I can understand if this is not for you but if it is drop me a line and we can chat and take it from there.

Mistress Mythy