This section is a bit about me;
Simply put, i am here to relax, chat, and spend time with friends.
If you are not willing to get to know me, then don't judge me or assume you know me.
I love laughing, love what the actual r/t lifestyle BDSM, D/s mean and bring to our lives.
I don't cyber scene with just anyone in fact rarely scene at all. I don't feel i have to in order to say hey! i am good or to prove who i am or that i am experienced or know what i have been fortunate enough to have learned in r/t.
I'm a girl, older and not the perfect barbie doll type, have been around in the lifestyle r/t for quite awhile now, and also chatted here online cyber for a good amount of time so i have been through a lot and seen a lot.
It seems with time we constantly change in our continued journey to find our place/destiny, joy and happiness both r/t and in this lifestyle the perfect balance.
For me i have experienced many things and yet again there are many things i haven't tried, i use to wonder about the more extreme i have not experienced but now? maybe not so much figuring maybe the idea and fantasy is much better than the reality would be.
Perhaps its that it seems to me as time has gone by what use to be a loving based relationship built on the Control given to who we would belong to has now grown to each persons 100% greed to their own wants and desires. I see more outlandish, wild, extreme things such as death/snuff, treating someone like vile garbage or complete defiling or hatred based play, forms of pain becoming more and more bizarre and they still believe this is all BDSM or D/s or M/s based?.
The old traditions of the loving combination with control and Domination, of pleasing and giving seems gone setting me on a different quest.
Sure! W/we love what we love but, what happened to values? the dynamics of blending love, trust, honesty and integrity, of getting to know one another, these traditions all seem elusive anymore.
I have to wonder if there is anyone that is around with the old traditions anymore.
I believe in manners, respect and how a person treats others, i do have a sense of humor, i laugh with or at things or situations i see here, please note; (not necessarily at you!) this all due to my own ironic sense of humor.
I will always be direct and honest so Please! (Don't ask something unless you are mature enough to hear the answer) prepared to take it as it is without making it a problem based on your own personal issues.
PLEASE NOTE; This is not up for discussion or debate, I am "NOT" bi-sexual, and 'NO' that is not determined by an experience or some other ridiculous suggestion. 'Really!' not all girls wanna luv up to another female.
If I do not greet you it means I may not like you, trust you and do not care to talk to you. It means I have taken the polite alternative and placed you on "Ignore".
The golden rule for Alt chat rooms:
Never argue with an idiot, First they bring you down to their level, and then they beat you up with experience.
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My Ideal Person:
My respect, desire and obedience are given not because "You Demand It" or say you are a Master, Sir,Dom,Daddy etc, but by Your Own example of respect and how you present Yourself and treat others, which ultimately shows me what kind of Man you truly are.
It is my hope to one day to be blessed and desired from a Sir/Owner that is confident, happy, in full control of His own life, believes in trust, respect, honesty and values, of what the Lifestyle truly adds to the dynamics of Your control in our relationship, not defines it.
That You are in control,love laughing and know the reality of adding our r/t life to what You desire behind our closed doors.
That You love sex, not just desiring to beat the holy shit out of me until i cant move yeah, I'm not a pain slut/maso. That You keep this girl in her place not due to a list of rules a mile long or from fear but because she has come to love You, adore You, most of all trusts You and desiring to bring pride and happiness to You.
Seem complicated? it really isn't *smiles*
Sometimes, the walls we build around us aren't necessarily there to keep people out, but to see who cares enough to break them down.
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