I'm a 41-year old professional with a creative mind and a good, if quirky sense of humor. I'd probably best be described as a "kinky computer geek", though you wouldn't necessarily get that from first view. I dabble at writing with a bdsm theme and have been involved, off and on, with bdsm for about 17 years now.
I like trying new things, and mixing incongruous situations, like a romantic cabin in the woods, crackling fire, and whatever toys I can manage to pack .
With a busy work life, I've had trouble meeting people in this area who share the same interests. Doubly difficult since I have to find someone who matches my "vanilla" interests (camping, hiking, computer games) and my other interests .
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My Ideal Person:
I'm seeking someone with a spirit of fun and adventure. Someone who knows how to laugh, even in odd circumstances. I'd like to meet someone open-minded... she wouldn't necessarily have to be very experienced in bdsm, as long as she was, like me, willing to try most anything (within reason), to find those things we both like.
Since I'm not looking for just a "casual" partner, I'd also to find someone who shares interests outside the bedroom (or basement, kitchen, yard . Outdoor activities are very good (fly-fishing, camping), as are interested in computer games, good books, and good company.
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