UPDATE: It's Renaissance Faire time and having lost over 40 lbs in this last year, some of my things no longer fit. Oh well good excuse to buy new things. Have been out of the lifestyle for over a year and not sure what I am looking for anymore. Not truly submissive any more and definitely not Domme enough for a male sub who wants be be beaten and humiliated. So will probably just lurk on the edge for a while and see what happens.
An old world romantic working in a modern technical world. BiBBW, 55, told I still look a LOT younger. DWF, 5'5" medium blonde (with silver streaks showing more and more), blue eyes, with an abundance of softness to caress. I am a high tech professional.
Have been a member of several groups in Houston; and now a member of APEX and PALS and PAALM and other groups. Have made some good friends. I still have not met that special someone. I am just not into pain, or humiliation or abuse... I love bondage and sensual play. Can be Domme with woman but just have a hard time telling a guy what to do or treating him like an object or abusing or using him... I will flog him or use my vibrating toys on him at a play party... but that is about it... I am looking for someone who is gently controlling and especially likes to do sensual public play.
I find I am submissive in the bedroom but not enough for a true DOM or Domme who wants 24/7. Will never be a slave or someone's rug. I love role playing, restraints, blindfolds, bondage, sex games, flirting, teasing, sexy clothes, flogs. NON-SMOKER, social drinker, enjoy concerts, dancing, eating out, movies, Renaissance Faires, and day trips. Went to Japan in 2001, lived in Europe in the 70's and I have very eclectic tastes. Adventurous with the right person. Especially like erotic and sensual bondage. I think of bondage and BDSM play as foreplay to great sex. I am purely a sensual / sexual switch. I do not enjoy humiliation at all. I am really only interested in bondage and submission with some flogging and other instruments used to awaken me /or you sexually for the pleasure of who I am with and myself. I enjoy exhibitionism and voyeurism but am not really into pain. Though no longer a "fluffy bunny butt" I am not a pain slut either. Being beaten or physically abused for the enjoyment of another or others is not my desire. Have never gotten into sub-space from that kind of play. Being flogged, spanked or paddled to heighten the physical senses and nerve endings for more erotic play is. I have an id on adult friend finders with this same id where I am a paid member and not on this site. I also can not get to this site during the week days - during working hours ... so be patient and I will get back to you in the evenings when I get home.But I love receiving from people using and putting ALT in the subject line will get a response.
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My Ideal Person:
Men (Not Cheating on their Wives)!!! Women who want a woman who knows how to please one. Must be clean, NON-SMOKERS are a MUST, social drinkers ok, DDF. Would prefer between the ages of 40 and 65, White, average or better weight. Someone who is looking for the sensual side of BDSM but still likes to attend small play parties and experiment with our limits.
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