My Ideal Person:
I have been "out" in many ways for several years. I just haven't had the right arrangement to explore what I am really looking for. I am finding that men with whom I share a mutual interest, are hard to come by (excuse the pun) in Korea. I am looking for someone that is able to allow me the pleasure of self discovery, without reducing it all to sex. This isn't a game for me and I am not a toy. I am not into chatting with men/people that are: immature, just in it for sex, looking for a one night stand, not in or near Seoul, old enough to be my parents' friends and anyone that is of the impression that "discreet" means lying. I am an ETHICAL person and discretion means picking an honest, open and respectful arrangement that allows everyone involved to achieve the highest level of enjoyment and enrichment possible. I am only into playing if everyone knows there's a game. Liars/married guys with wives at home in the dark, NEED NOT APPLY! However, open minded ethical couples and singles...please feel free!

I would like to find people/someone of the like mind, tastes and interests that can have both the normalcy (in day light) and the darkness I need at night. (Ever see the "Secretary"?) I am into women at some level but haven't really had one "alone". I think they are fun in a 3 some but would be willing to branch out. I seem to be quite lucky getting the attention of women in Asia but can't tell if it's a true "scene" (bi/lesbian) attraction or just the culture. I would like someone diverse, mentally if not racially and someone that has been around long enough to have a true ethical backbone. Friendship is not a consolation prize and it's just the beginning of what I am looking for.