Are you looking to learn more about the lifestyle or looking to take your roll in this lifestyle to another level? Are you looking to try things that you've only dreamed of, or do you want to push your limits and see how much you can grow in this lifestyle? Regardless, of what you're looking for, I can help you find it.
Are you interested in over-the-knee spankings, bondage, whips, gags, blindfolds, discipline, humiliation, power exchange, or just kinky sex? Whatever you are interested in, I can give you the opportunity to try it.
Are you looking for a friend, a Dom, an Owner, or just a play partner? I can be any of these, and more.
A little about me. I'm an intelligent Dom that has been in this lifestyle for more than 10 years. I'm a very dominant person in all aspects of life. I've known this since I was a young child and it has just grown more obvious over the years. I always prefer to have a leadership role regardless of what I'm doing. I believe that my competitiveness in sports and my drive to get the job done right has reinforced my dominant personality in life.
I discovered my dominant side in the bedroom when I was a teenager. I always enjoyed the excitement of rough sex and doing things "different" than what others were doing. I loved to experiment and try new things. The first time that I tied a girlfriend up, I was hooked on this lifestyle, even though at the time, I didn't know anything about it or that others were into it also. From those experimental times many years ago to where I find myself now, I've grown to know that this lifestyle will always be a part of me.
I am kind, compassionate, loving, patient, strict, and at times, stern. I love to be in control, to have someone serve me, trusting me to protect them and take care of them, rewarding them when they're good and punishing them (both mentally and physically) when they're bad. I love to push someone's limits, to guide them to discover new things about themselves, taking them beyond what they thought possible. Teaching them to be the best sub/slut/slave that they can be. I'm not a perfectionist, but if I ask you to do something, I'll expect you to at least make an attempt at doing it. No attempt = punishment. Attempt, but failure = coaching and guidance. I expect my sub/slave to follow my rules and instructions quickly and exactly. In return for her obedience, I will protect her, comfort her, guide her, provide for her, and if the relationship progresses far enough, give her my unconditional love. Punishments could include; otk spankings, floggers, whips, humiliation, bondage, loss of privileges (TV, phone, use of furniture/bed, desserts, clothing choices), writing assignments, or chores, etc. Rewards could include; a reduction in punishment, trips, gifts, a set amount of time without chores, etcÂ… Since my time is valuable, I expect them to put forth the effort to learn what I expect of them. I will teach her to be what I desire her to be and I will push her boundaries. My desire is that we can grow together by continually moving further along and not falling into a life of boredom, but a life of adventure and excitement. I will listen to her suggestions, comments, reservations, and fears, but I will make the final decisions in our life together.
I enjoy bondage, discipline, humiliation, spanking, whipping, breast play, public sex, outdoor play and lots of other things. I'm open to just about anything. I will discuss limits and expectations at the beginning of any relationship and will always respect those limits. I'm willing to discuss any topic and willing to give you the opportunity to live out just about any of your fantasies.
I'm a very sexual person and hope to find someone that can keep up with me. Also, I hope she is someone that likes to explore and try new things.
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My Ideal Person:
I'm looking for someone that is truly interested in this lifestyle, whether it's just an occasional meeting, a regular relationship with kinky sex or eventually a 24x7 relationship, but I would prefer some type of serious relationship growing from our time together.
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