My Ideal Person:
Submission, as the dictionary says, "to commit to the decisions of another, yield, surrender". Reading those words makes me think of freedom, perhaps an odd thing to say for a lot of people, but to have the freedom, the total trust to be able to let go, to surrender is something that I have not had a lot of in my life. It is not an easy thing for a strong person, that has had to be strong for those around her to do, but that makes it all the more intense and special when one can finally do it.
To know that there is someone that understands or atleast takes the time and effort to try to understand (I realize that understanding another person takes a lot of effort) is such a wonderful feeling. That someone appreciates the many good qualities and gifts that you have, also sees the faults, but is still willing to care, to help you improve yourself is such a rush, both sexually and mentally. It makes me feel free to dare anything, not be afraid to look silly, wanton, or weak.
Because I have found a Master that brings out the freedom I spoke of above, it lets me be open enough to realize that to involve others, either male, female, or couples,is not a threat to what Master and I are building, only an enhancement. We seek others to join us at times for enjoyment of sensuous play and fun times. If you are interested in exploring this possibility, feel free to email me.