UPDATE:
For those of you who didn't bother to read the entire profile before…
I've always been open and up-front about my marital status. Yes, I'm married. Yes, my wife is aware of my activities here — and she approves; in fact, it was her idea that I continue pursuing my interests here (the "why" is our business).
For those who insist on criticizing and passing judgment on others…kindly direct your attention to the next profile. We are perfectly comfortable with our decisions and choices — and frankly don't care what you think.
…and now back to the profile.
Lifelong devotee of spanking, paddling, and the like. Not necessarily seeking actual sexual contact (though I won't rule it out, either)just spanking may be enough for both of us (?). It can be a good, old-fashioned bare-bottom spanking by hand (or with various implementsif we both agree), or something "heavier", if you'd like (if more extreme D/s scenes are more your style, that's fine, too). Will consider pretty much any scenario or flavor, whether you want to be genuinely punished as a naughty girl, prefer spanking as erotic foreplay, or just like the glow produced by having your bottom warmed. All limits and boundaries respected. No pressure, no commitments; just safe, sane, consensual, mutually-agreed play.
I'm by far most often the Top (about 90% of the time), but do occasionally switch.
I'm also amenable to play with select couples and male partners (I'm somewhat "bi-friendly" to a point, anyway. Depends on what you're seeking. If circumstances seem right, I may allow another man to service me orally, or might even do him anally — though he shouldn't automatically expect either favor to be returned.  ) Again, however, I view actual sexual contact as secondary; it's fine — if everything feels right. Not always a necessity, though. In any event, most prospective male playmates would be considered only as half of a participating M/F couple — not for a one-on-one session. (Okay. So, I might be just a little curious, after all —under the right circumstances, and with the right playmate. To some degree, anyway.)
I'm vas safe, D&D-free, clean, and shaved in the right places. I prefer that my partners also be shaved, but it's not a deal-breaker if you're more the "natural" type. I view the safe-sex and personal hygiene issues as the most important considerations in this area.
Though I don't rule out one-night stands, I'm more interested in having a smaller network of compatible partners to engage in occasional encounters than in amassing a lengthy track record; promiscuity really isn't my style. Besides…it usually takes a few meetings to grow comfortable with a partner before things start to really sizzle.
I travel extensively throughout the midwest and southeastern US, and frequently to WI, MN, TN, TX, NM, AZ, CA, and nearby areas. I'm more flexible time-wise when I'm closer to home. Usually can be found on Y! to arrange meetings.
My Ideal Person:
Seeking taut, firm, spankable female bottoms of all ages. I'm usually Top, but I
occasionally do switch/role-reversal to bottom with the right partner(s). Will consider select couples and male partners, as well (though I'm not likely to switch with other males).
What type of scene activities are you active in or would you be interested in exploring?:
OTK bare-bottom spanking, primarily, usually with just the bare hand (though I'm certainly amenable to using various implements, e.g., paddle, cane, hairbrush, etc. with partners who have a need for something a bit more serious). Can also include face-slapping, hair-pulling, verbal humiliation, and the like — if my partner has such a need. Also open to other ideas, of course; basically, I adapt the scene to partner's desires and limits.
The term BDSM covers a lot of ground. What's your scene?:
My interest in hard-core S&M and the like has waned considerably (though I still do play in that venue from time to time, and occasionally indulge my own S&M and D&S urges). Primary interest these days is simple OTK spanking for recreation and play, bare hand on bare bottom; however, I do, of course, accommodate partners' needs for rougher play, and can certainly handle any yearning for genuine punishment/discipline.
How do you identify?
I am a Top — who occasionally gets an itch to switch.
How big of a role does BDSM play in your life?
BDSM is great, but it's more of an interest (though a passionate one) than a lifestyle. Purely recreatonal.
What are your thoughts on anal play?
I always enjoy anal play, whether giving or receiving. Okay. I admit it: I'm an ass-man. (Surprising to find one of those on this site, huh?)
How about anal sex? As Top? As bottom?
I like anal sex, but, not too frequently (in either role). Almost exclusively Top, but I've taken a strap-on from time to time.
What's your take on fisting?
I've fisted and been fisted. Pretty intense stuff, to say the least. Requires a great deal of trust and patience, though (and a LOT of lube!). A great addition to play — when the time is right.
What type of roles have you played or would you be interested in exploring?
I've never been much for role-playing, as a rule; I generally accommodate partners' wishes in this area, though (and actually do enjoy some roles). Just tell me whatcha want.
How many years of experience would you like your partner to have?
Honestly, it doesn't matter to me. Though experience is generally preferred (experienced playmates already know what they want — and how to provide reciprocal pleasure), it's not a necessity. An eager newcomer can in fact sometimes make things more interesting.
What are your thoughts and experiences with introducing people to the BDSM lifestyle who do not have any experience with or in it?
I've assisted many newcomers, and can be very patient
when necessary. It's sometimes nice to be a part of
someone finally experiencing that which was hitherto
only dreamed and fantasized about —or even agonized over.
What types of scene activities are OFF LIMITS to you?
Basically…no kids, blood, needles, bodily wastes, or anything that causes permanent marking.
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My Ideal Person:
Seeking taut, firm, spankable female bottoms of all ages. I'm usually Top, but
occasionally do switch/role-reversal to bottom with the right partner(s). Will consider select couples and male partners, as well (though I'm not likely to switch with other males).
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