My Ideal Person:
Well,

This is yet again, a transforming profile...as I've been away from the lifestyle for a while...for a much needed break...

All of my adult life I've been widely in the lifestyle, and I have been fortunate to have had the chance to live many of my fantasies, and have met some Wonderful people and some not so wonderful people. However, the urge for the lifestyle is huge within me and no matter how much I've tried to shed it, somehow it returns with a bigger vengeance than ever.

So here goes...as to What I'm looking for.

The person that I dream about, is a person who looks at the heart/soul and intelligence and passion of a person vs just the exterior looks...as true beauty does come from with ones self. The man is educated, and takes pride in learning new things in the lifestyle. He knows that there are many different views on this earth, and can hold a conversation and not take different views personal. He realizes that there is more to life and a relationship than Sex, and BDSM related activities, but thoroughly enjoys them. He realizes that to make a relationship work, it takes "work", time, dedication, love and respect.