I've been consciously dominating men for a long time. A special moment was when I forced an upper classman to beg to suck my toes when I had a broken ankle. I was in the car with my cast propped up on the open window, my father was inside the hardware store, and this boy had to beg on his knees before I said allowed him the privilege of toe worship. I was 15.
Off the cuff, I'm not easily defined. I'm smart, act and appear very conventional, am skillful in the use of restraint....errrr, conversational details. Conversational details, yes, that's it. *S* Those that know me well find my creativity helplessly magnetic. Some things are beyond conscious control...I love erotic teasing, watching that blush creep into his cheeks, making him beg for something he wants so much, and then, beg some more. Enjoying the companionship of someone to escort me while I
shop for rope to add to my impressive collection, watching his reaction as I pick up this or that, and whispering in his ear to tease him a little more about what I might do--it all makes for an incredible day!
It's the gray matter that catches my attention and the wavier, the better. I'm attracted to articulate, expressive, talented men. Entice me, attract my eye and hold my interest.....
The following is a strict point. I don't want to be remotely involved with a married, separated, in the process of divorcing, or un/happily married man. Don't approach me in the midst of a midlife crisis. Clearly, I am seeking a well balanced, emotionally healthy individual.
I insist on unstinting honesty. I understand the difference between a response and an answer and will pin you to the wall to get the answers to my questions. Now, if I haven't made you run for your reasons or mine, feel free to continue reading.
Sexual identity is important, and, BDSM isn't the sum total of my life. I have a lifelong interest in Classical Art, the Renaissance and Baroque periods being my favorite. I've been known to drift into Bonwit's to try on furs just for the fun of it (only Blackglama will do). An entertaining afternoon might be browsing the stacks at Borders, taking in the Baltimore waterfront, exploring Embassy Row, or driving through ritzy neighborhoods and comparing different architectural styles... Daytrips for crabbing, whitewater rafting, and the occasional live hockey game are but the tip of the iceberg.
I am competitive, very skilled in my occupation and I temper that with compassion and an ability to cut straight to the bottom line. I like being able to solve a problem while maintaining diplomacy and keeping the lines of communication open.
I'm a very strong extrovert, intuitive, perceptive, analytical and have a sharp wit. At the moment, this is feeling more like a resume than an introduction....*smiling* If you have the interest, take the time to connect. I'm looking for someone with whom sharing laughter is a natural high because the chemistry is terrific! Ciao.
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My Ideal Person:
It's been said that dominance and submission are different sides of the same coin. I agree. The challenge is finding one another with all the obstacles, such as personalities, geography, age, life baggage, and then, there are the wide tastes in play and lifestyle interests.
A gentleman that can challenge me and I him. I like articulate men; particularly those that understand that sexuality and my interest to play begin long before the toybag opens. Hold the door open for me, and know that mutual consideration is important. Discover my tastes, be observant of my preferences. When you make that effort, don't do it out of an obligation or because you feel pressured, but because you know I like it (and I am demonstrative in appreciating your efforts) and that you WANT to do these things. I like masculine men who are clearly assertive in the other side of their lives. Ambition, accomplishment, and strength are very attractive to me. Similarly, humor, consideration, and the desire to be pleasing are very appealing.
My interests are numerous and listed below. Novices are welcome but do-me queens are not. Experienced partners are appreciated and know we all bring our histories to the table. I'm sensual and nurturing, teasing and aggressive in my play. I don't expect everyone to meet my exact shopping list, nor do I expect to meet his. Among my favorites are the delicate bondage of psychological interaction and also the intimacy that comes with intricate rope work. Add the magnetism of an erotic spanking, the sting of corporal punishment, the imagination of role-play, and the occasional controlled terror of the unknown, and you have found your way into my web.
I prefer a guy who is equally at home in a more customary occasion as he is playing intimately and that can handle himself well. Who knows, I might invite you to a social event and require you to be wearing a rope corset under your clothing? What's more, I'll spend the evening with you and never refer to our little secret and no one will be the wiser. (It's not their business anyway, is it?) I am looking for a guy who wants more than a casual play date and wants to investigate more fully before he puts his bottom on the line. I have values and standards and expect you to be similarly inclined. This is your opportunity to catch my eye and my interest. Don't be married or involved and please be honest and smart as hell!
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