I am an academic, a thinker, a teacher, a bit of a goth, a passionate person (not just sexually!), a lover of music and good books, and a person who appreciates (but does not require) the finer things in life.
I am a dominant woman who sometimes bottoms for pain, but is not submissive. I am bisexual, as is my husband. I am also a married, polyamorous woman. But despite all this, I am not - NOT - indiscriminate. I choose my partners carefully, and I seek real connections.
Both my husband and I are active in the BDSM scene, and we enjoy it, though we don't play in the scene together. I have other partners beyond my husband whom I love dearly, and their needs impress upon anything I do. In all of this, BDSM is not my life, but it is a powerful part of me.
I am interested in finding both submissives and dominants to interact with, either online or in person, to at least talk about what makes us tick. I want to understand more people, hear and understand more what people feel and think and know. I am especially interested those who might like something casual (friendship or play), but not ephemeral.
My interest list contains more information on my particular interests in the BDSM scene.
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My Ideal Person:
I can't describe what I'm looking for - the person is what matters. I have found connections in all manner of unlikely situations.
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