My first love was Darth Vader -I had this poster of him on my wall. I'm a fit, active, intelligent, well-traveled (still traveling) person with a friendly disposition and a social conscience. I've got my life together. Really, I'm a fairly normal woman in most ways, with normal interests and a normal lifestyle - and an absolute need to be dominated in bed.
If you met me on the street you might not guess I was a sub. I'm assertive and confident, and I've been described as brainy and over-educated. I'm not afraid to voice my opinions, and I'm not a pushover or a doormat. I don't trust blindly.
I've learned the importance of keeping my mind and body strong, so I do, and these attributes are not everybody's cup of tea. That's cool, everyone's got their own tastes; so, if you're not into strong, intelligent women I thank you for reading, but I'm probably not the girl for you. That said, some of you probably know that fierce women make the sweetest, most loyal subs in the end.
Fear gets me going. I like the taste of danger, and feeling like I'm at someone elses mercy is a turn-on, but I have problems with people who want to do real damage. Not interested in a 24/7 thing, polyamorous relationships, arbitrary housework, serious pain/scarification, or one-night stands that serve as a replacement for the pro someone's too cheap to hire. PLease read that last sentence again - if it resonates with you, consider pumping a few bucks into the alternative economy.
Although I've skirted the scene for most of my adult life, I have no experience with the full-time lifestyle. I know I'm completely sub, and only very, very rarely switch. Interested in play, but looking for a committed relationship when all's said and done. More photos (no skin-shots) are available upon your solemn and honorable promise not to share or post them.
I'd like to steal a line from another lady on this site: I'm looking, not desperate. I won't submit to just anyone (no matter how loud he yells) and I'm not the type to settle for less than an excellent match.
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My Ideal Person:
Looking for someone whose mind, body and character are equally strong; someone I can really admire, who takes care of himself, has his life in good order and is reasonably close to my own age. An intelligent, articulate man. A man who keeps his temper and never uses anger as an excuse to inflict pain on women, or otherwise abuses his dominance - if you can't control your temper you certainly can't control me.
Strength, intelligence (brains, especially slightly sinister brains, are so sexy) and general good health are super important to me, as well as honor, protectiveness and a strong sense of loyalty. Being attractive never hurts either.
If you'd like to contact me and have no photo available on your profile, please attach a recent one. Appearances aren't everything but they do count, and if I'm willing to risk putting my image out there I think it's the least someone can do to reciprocate. Without a photo I probably won't respond to you, and to be honest I'd rather see your face before I see your cock. Call me old-fashioned.
Lastly, I hope that anyone interested in getting to know me will keep in mind that as a sub (and a small one at that) I'm very vulnerable. Since there's n ne but me to look after my safety when dealing with people on this site, please understand that I won't/can't risk meeting anyone before we've spoken on the phone, and first meetings must happen in a public place.
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