I'm a switch, currently in a relationship, but curious and wanting to explore. I'm involved in an amazing, monogamous bdsm relationship, but I really wish I could be poly and have my limits pushed a lot more.
I have to be friends before I can just jump into the sexual aspects of a relationship. If the trust or connection isn't there, it's not going to happen. I love the discovery and the blossoming of a relationship. Honesty/trust, intimacy, intelligence, passion, and humor are my greatest turn-ons.
I love a man who can be romantic, sweep me off my feet, make me feel like a goddess, and make me think...then turn around and beat the shit out of me, or allow me to do it to him - better yet, take turns! - while making me feel naughty and dirty, but cherished.
I'm just a little bi-curious. I would love to have a beautiful slave or subgirl to play with. I would consider subbing to the right woman, but it would be a rare occurance indeed.
What I really want is someone who will discreetly but enthusiastically share my fantasies, and maybe lend a new dimension and perspective to them. I'm very loyal to my partner, but I always love a good mind fuck.
There are some things I only enjoy doing as a Top (ie: anal, foot worship), and vice versa.
LOVE: blindfolds, breath play, bondage, cbt, crying, discipline, hair pulling, humiliation, masochism, massage, Mistress/slave, power exchange, sadism, talking dirty, toys, vibrators, whips
ENJOY: anal, biting, breast play/torture, body worship, collars/leashes, dildos, exhibitionism, fisting, foot/boot worship, lingerie, leather, mutual masturbation, oral, pantyhose/stockings, participating in erotic photography, rimming, spanking, voyeurism
CURIOUS ABOUT: age play, branding, cages, kitty play, knife play, masks, puppy play, religious/spiritual play, role playing, sensory deprivation
I've filled out those additional questions several times, and the idiot thing keeps losing all my checklists and fantasies. 
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My Ideal Person:
Someone who is honest, intelligent, funny, thoughtful, respectful, sexy, open, romantic, spiritual, freaky...
Coherent.
Respectful.
Romantic. Wooing turns me on much more than raunch does...at first.
If my fantasies were to actually be *fulfilled*, I would hope to find a slave or pet of my own to play with. I'd love someone who would happily sit at my feet, serve me, and give their body and feelings over to me for a little while. Something about the idea of controlling someone from a distance really turns me on. Nothing is sexier than a naked man who will bow down and let me have my way with him - so I would expect pictures of my boy completing his tasks.
I'd also like a man who can gracefully dominate me - push my limits, make me feel sexy & desireable, play me, teach me how to play you, safely and consentually explore some of my more secret fantasies, like my kitty, daddy/girl, or fantasies...
Having class, maturity, goals, respect, religion, and money are all mega-pluses 
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