***"Recognizing power in another does not diminish your own." — Joss Whedon***
Who am I? I am Witchy. I’m not a complex person, but I’m not simple either. I’m not really good at describing myself, but then I don’t have to be. What good is it reading a two dimensional profile when the woman herself is three dimensional?
**I’m a slave at heart, and I’m content with this.** I’ve recently discovered that while I have “top” tendencies, my desire to top comes second to my service self. I am a very service oriented person, a heavy masochist (who likes to move and fight, sometimes), and someone who takes true pleasure in making others happy. I’m a bit bouncy without coffee, and without sleep, and love being the center of attention. **I am sometimes very much a little girl, I am sometimes a puppy, and I’m sometimes a woman.**
My traits are always growing and changing, and I’m attempting to find my footing in this world. I am lifestyle—probably most identifying with the Leather aspects—and have discovered many great friends because of living this lifestyle. Even alone, I live by my values and morals 24/7—***How can you serve someone in this lifestyle if you’re unable to develop and live by your own values and morals?*** I find it funny, no matter where I am in this world, that I can fall back on something so minimal—but so very much my core.
**I am a woman, very much an adult who is intellectual and funny (when she doesn't try), but still very childlike (never childish). ** I am a little, enjoying many of the aspects of the Daddy/little girl dynamic—though this primarily comes about due to my insecurities coming to the surface. My little doesn’t have a defined age, nor should she. A Daddy, to me, is someone who can fit any little dynamic I throw at them. She sometimes comes out unbidden, and she loves to be cuddled and held without commitments. She enjoys coloring, video games, and holding Jack Skellington. But, at the end of day, I’m a mix of an adult and a little girl and a puppy.
My puppy is just fun, and doesn’t come out too often—a lot more than people realize, but I don’t actually do “puppy play.” Though if you want to win an argument with me, try tossing a ball.
I’m very much a family oriented person, though that doesn’t necessarily mean that I’m poly. A poly household is something that I honestly see myself in, in the future. But truth be told, I despise the competition and the selfishness that I see in most poly relationships and refuse to be a part of them. I have met poly families that are very successful, however, and hold them as example of what poly CAN be. Because I’m family oriented, and because of my passion for my place, I’m very much a servant to my family—but I’m NOT a Beta personality. **I am too determined and too headstrong to be anything other than myself—which usually is mistaken for Bitchiness, but is truly my type-A personality.** In a nutshell, I’m a type A personality when left to my own devices, but very much a B personality when with the right type of person. Does this mean I’m not slave or submissive? No, quite the contrary—I do not like the competition and jealousy that poly households inspire, but that never means I wouldn’t fulfill my desires for a true Leather and poly family one day.
**I dislike being made someone’s option when they are my priority—I needn’t be their priority ALL the time, or being put on a “do-no-wrong” pedestal—but I do need to feel that at times I am desired and wanted and not just for what I am able to provide. **
**Never count me out just because I’m down. I go through ups and downs as a person; but you’ll be surprised at how I handle the situation, once I have a clear understanding of what is going on and what I desire to give others. **
**I am strong, vibrant, and more than a handful.** I was recently told that “Honesty without Integrity is Cruelty,” and I’m starting to understand what this means to me. She also told me that love comes in all shapes, sizes, and packages. I’ve also come to understand through my conversations with a friend that my purpose in life is mine to determine—and that I honestly bring joy into people’s lives—but it is up to me to make the difference I want to make. He’s also explained to me that I cannot give without receiving in return. And others, too many to list, have been giving for a long time without me knowing or understanding why. They love me, though I frustrate them, and have while we do not always see eye-to-eye, they have come to value me as more than a slave girl---they value me as a friend, lover, mother, sister, and more—and expect only my friendship in return. I’m starting to understand true friendship and would expect that my partner or future Master would understand these feelings as well.
**I found that what I want is out there, and what I fall in love with is out there. ** I desire to be in love with my partner, and for Him to be in love with me. I desire a family, as I’m very mom-ish at times as well as sister-ish, but I want to be on steady ground with my partner before expanding on the Household. This doesn’t mean that I wouldn’t enter into a family already established, so long as I was fully aware and comfortable with my place. Family is family, and they help you find who you are and what you want.
I enjoy random acts of Sadism (physical and humiliation) with my partner. It actually makes me feel special and prized—so long as there is a balance between this and gentleness and gentility. Takedown play is wonderful, just as well as cuddles and touches.
I thrive under strict rules—not because I need to be micromanaged—but because I find that my pride is engaged and I wish to do my best at all times to accomplish goals and obey the rules.
I enjoy heavy players who can pull back when I need them to or go full force and push me beyond my limits of endurance when I need them to, understanding how my body and my mind work.
I enjoy sex, and with the right people, I do desire swing--or polysexual—relationships. I enjoy -play with the right people, Daddy/daughter play with the right person, and rough takedown play/sex with the right person.
I love intelligence. I do not respond to the "yo bitch" attitude and language. Using foul language is fine, as I curse like a sailor, but please at least use it properly. Hold a conversation that's well rounded and expands beyond the BDSM world. And finally, please don't use slang when speaking to me (or avoid it as much as possible...).
I love getting into the minds of others, and watching my friends/partners to play others. For some reason, I learn from this and genuinely enjoy watching my friend/partners bring joy to others.
I desire my partners (and friends) to push me past my comfort zone and help me to grow. This doesn’t mean shoving advice down my throat (or even giving me a direct order), but rather inspiring me to do what it is I need to do to improve myself—and therefore my partner by extension. I will make mistakes. I’ve made quite a bit in the last few months, some having cost me friendships and family members, but I’m learning from them and growing from them.
I don't randomly submit. I'm naturally submissive, yes, but I don't go around "submitting" to those because they are claiming to be a dominant. I submit to those whom have earned my respect and who I honestly see as a Dominant role toward me.
I bottom to select partners, not submit. You can see the difference in how I approach a person.
Please don't confuse the two.
There is a lot to know about me, and about what I want, and quite frankly, it’s better to ask then for me to spill my secrets fully.
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