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DomLysandru  
I am a Gentleman--right until I handcuff you.
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Member Since: December 1, 2001

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Information:
Gender:   Man
Birthdate:   July 10, 1964
(59 years old)
Astrological Compatibility
Lives in:   NoVA, Virginia, United States
Travels to:   Montgomery Co., Pennsylvania
Height:   6 ft 1 in / 185-187 cm
Body Type:   Ample
Smoking:   I'm a non-smoker
Drinking:   I don't drink at all
Drugs:   I don't use drugs
Education:   Some grad school
Race:   Caucasian
Sexual Orientation:   Straight
Speaks:   English, Spanish, Russian
Hair Color:   Brown
Hair Length :   Short
Eye Color :   Hazel
Glasses or Contacts :   None


LifeStyle
Activities Enjoyed:   {"33":"Exhibitionism/Sex In Public|2|1","68":"Whips|1|1","17":"Chastity Devices|1|1","48":"Oral Fixation|2|10","42":"Latex|2|5","1":"24/7 (Total Power Exchange)|1|1","18":"Chains|2|1","72":"Humiliation|2|1","30":"Dildos (Handheld & Strap-ons)|2|1","23":"Collar and Lead/Leash|2|1","82":"Massage|2|2","84":"Oral Sex|3|2","39":"Hair Pulling|2|1","57":"Role Playing|2|1","61":"Master/Slave|2|1","9":"Blindfolds|2|1","58":"Rubber|2|5","41":"Lace/Lingerie|2|5","12":"Bondage|3|1","14":"Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc.|2|1","20":"Cling Film|1|1","15":"Confinement/Caging|1|1","47":"Doctor/Nurse Fetish|1|1","52":"Power Exchange|2|6","38":"Handcuffs/Shackles|3|1","34":"Electrotorture (EMS TENS units)|1|1","49":"Spanking/Paddling|3|1","37":"Gangbangs|2|10","43":"Leather|3|6","31":"Domination|3|1","5":"High Heels|2|5"}
I think about ALT lifestyle:   All the time
Role:   Dominant
Level of Experience:   More than five years
Dress:   Casual
Social Orientation :   Moderate
Safe Sex:   Yes
Demeanor:   Assertive

Personal
Facial Hair: None
Body Hair: Little
Body Decorations : None
Male Endowment: Prefer not to say/
Prefer not to say
Circumcised: Prefer not to say
Marital Status: Single
Have Children: No
Want Children : Maybe
Occupation: Engineering/Technical
Religion: Protestant

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59 year old Man in NoVA, Virginia, United States Looking For: Women or Couples (2 women)

Profile for DomLysandru
Greetings all... I am a single white Dominant professional male living near Washington, D.C. with an upstanding "vanilla" life and challenging career. Thus I am not posting a picture with a clear view of my face. And I am on a search for a special good girl—or a trainable bad one. I am open to having short term fun, but what I truly want eventually is a long-term relationship that encompasses D/s as part of its dynamic. Because, I believe that every relationship is unique, the extent of the power exchange in the relationship has to be negotiated. I respect all hard limits and safe words (one must play nice after all). But I will have dominion. I have my own limits. And they include: no drugs; no scat; no blood; no minors; no animals; no scars; no other men; and nothing that gets anyone fired, arrested, or hospitalized. I characterize my style as “a steel fist in a velvet glove.” I am not into heavy pain or traumatic humiliation. However, I will discipline you and show you your proper place in My Order. If you are new to all of this, I am renowned for my patience. I encourage newbies to ask questions in a respectful manner. My kink interests include: Domination; discipline; bondage (!); toys; role play; and fetish clothing. While I am nuts about leather and latex, other looks can get me aroused—like tight fuzzy sweaters, satin blouses, or pencil skirts. My "vanilla" interests include history, science fiction, movies, swimming, and games of all sorts (non-computer). The long term pet must be prepared to play charming "vanilla" hostess for gaming gatherings. I won't call myself a "foodie," but I do enjoy fine dining and a broad variety of cuisines. [B]What I am looking for in a long-term relationship:[/B] You should be a natural born woman. You can be a tall blonde amazon, a petite brunette, a fluffy redhead of medium height or some variation of the above. It’s all how the package is put together. I will say that I usually don’t like women with more tattoos than a mid-level yakuza or enough piercings to cause a fuss when going through airport security. You should be a legal U.S. resident and live within a reasonable driving distance from Washington, D.C. I am not going to be your immigration facilitator. And I am not relocating you at my expense unless I win a major lottery. Furthermore, you are not moving in with me unless we are planning to wed. You should be single, widowed, or divorced. (A waiver might be granted if you are separated and just waiting for the lawyers to finish the argument over the spoils.) If you have , that is super. I adore . But I am not looking to father any of my own at this stage of my life. And if you are more than 5 years older than I am, you are going to have a hard time convincing me to take you on. You should be a submissive woman, a switch woman, or a Domme ready to undergo “rehabilitation.” You are NOT looking for your “Daddy.” I find the idea of a grown woman calling me “Daddy” to be quite unsettling. (I can cut some slack for a Latina calling me “Papi” on occasion for cultural reasons.) I do not personally drink or smoke. My special girl may drink or smoke within strict regulation by me. Heavy smoking will be broken. Drugs are an immediate deal breaker—period. Finally, you should be reasonably intelligent and have a sense of humor (you will need it). Please be able to make intelligent conversation when you aren’t gagged. --DomLysandru[/SIZE][/SIZE][/SIZE] [if254 1]

My Ideal Person:
I decline to answer this question so that I don't needlessly discourage someone.


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