I like low key, friendly people who get that this isn't punishment. When he have sessions it's called play time so we should be playing and having fun.
[B]I WON'T PAY FOR THIS. That's not to say I won't buy dinner, split accommodations or pay my fair share for meet ups. However, No PROS. I WILL NOT pay for sub or doms. If you want my money to go into your hand, that's a non starter. [/B]
It seems absurd I have to say this but just because this is a fetish hookup site, doesn't mean the rules of common courtesy don't apply. If you say you're going to be somewhere at a time, confirm the appointment. If you can't make it. tell the person. It's tiring wasting precious time off waiting for people who don't show up.
I like all kinds of scenes from pretty vanilla (which is underrated as a flavor BTW) to full up slave on a leash. A sub has as much right to say what they want from a scene as a dom.
I don't mind driving for the right experience. Preparation and discussion make a great session. Knowing limits, having things ready helps keep everyone in their sub or dom space. I don't do this often so I like long drawn out scenes where we both/all get to spend time and get what we're looking for out of it.
Not looking for a life style change. I do this, I have fun, I love it but I need to go back to the rest of my life. Doesn't mean we can't be friends but if you're looking for a long term sub/slave or to be owned by someone full time, I'm probably not your guy.
I'm not into giving or getting verbal humiliation. I'm not going to insult someone who gives me their body to enjoy and don't like being insulted by someone to whom I've given my own body.
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My Ideal Person:
Someone who is comfortable and wants to have fun. Respects privacy as much as I respect the privacy of others.
Someone who knows the difference between pain for pleasure and actual injury. Angry guys who just want to hurt people need not apply. Also, someone who appreciates and respects that I'm giving them my body to enjoy. It's sad I even have to say this but please have bathed recently. I know, right?
If I'm the slave/sub, I'm coming to be your sex/BDSM slave. If I wanted to wash dishes, do yard work or cook food, I'd stay home. If I host I provide a clean comfortable place to play and don't expect anyone to do the chores for me.
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