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I am looking fot ltr.
I am submissive. I repeat I AM SUBMISSIVE/SLAVE
First and foremost DO NOT send me a friend request without messaging me. It's annoying. If you want to be friends I would like to make sure we at least spoken to one another. Probably my own little quirk, but one I insist upon.
With that said I want to share the qualities I desire in a Master.
-Humor. I'm a playful, silly, girl and I love to laugh (not at my own expense). I hope that my jokes, teases, etc. don't piss you off. Not saying I don't want an intense, serious man, buuuut I hope you can laugh too.
- I don't want to teach anymore. There's a difference between me explaining what I like and we're researching that together and me taking you by the hand for everything. I have a dominant personality (I am NOT dominant). I work in a field where I must be in charge and sure of myself. I don't want to question you or doubt you or your experience. I must be sure in your knowledge of what's going on and trust you so i can be what you want me to be.
-Say what you mean and stick to it. Precedent is big with me. If you keep saying you're going to do something and I test the water (sometimes I can't myself and I apologize for that) don't give in. I need to know that you will and can do as you say whether that's in punishment or a promise to be there. If you always say you will do such and such and then don't then you have set a precedent with me and I will be upset when you try to enforce something when you particularly never do. I hope that made sense.
-Trust will come. So please be patient with me. i will put my life and my trust into your hands. I will do as told believing that you have already thought out the kinks and anything that can harm me beyond what I can handle. I will give you everything with the intention and thought that you will be responsible enough to handle it. I am your responsibility. My trust is yours. Please don't abuse it. I also need to trust that I can lose control and you won't abuse it or lose your control with me. I NEED to lose control and trust you to take the reigns and guide me.
-Control/Force. I know I'm a "bad" sub for wanting to be force, but it turns me on greatly. I know most people will read that and stop. A sub should WANT to do what is asked of her, because she wants to please her top. I get that. And I do. I swear I do. But, I like to look up and see that foreboding look of -what did you just say- or feel that hand tighten in my hair/arm/whatever or just feel your strength and power. Oh gawd, how I crave to feel your power, your strength via mental or physical and get that spike of adrenaline coursing through me ... I can't explain it. I tried and I think I eloquently failed.
-Expectation. I NEED to know what you expect of me. I NEED to know what to do in situations. I LOVE non-verbal communication. A look, a gesture, etc so I know exactly what is expected of me in any given moment. Especially in public. Maybe it's because I grew up in a military household where I had a set of expectations. But I NEED that. Badly.
-Dark. What is dark? I still have no clue. I know i'm not your typical female needing romantical rose colored glasses and cuddling. I'm more rough. i'm more ... dark. That's all I got to express a feeling I'm still trying to figure out. Sorry.
Again i am not looking. The above is just for me to add or edit as time goes of my desires, wants, and needs in this and maybe .. just maybe I'll find him.
Alright so enough people have asked what I'm into. Let's try something easier. What I'm NOT into. I'll try (almost) anything once. But what I totally am not into is: severe pain (i'm not a pain slut), titty/nipple torture (looks like pain to me) blood, scat/waterworks, vomit. Those I just will not do.
I reserve the right to add more to my limits as they come up and more to my profile.
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My Ideal Person:
A dominant man who is more dominant than me. I'm not a switch but I Jane a dominant personality and it's hard to find manly men nowadays. I'm not saying you can't be sensitive but switches and less dominant men tend to submit to me and that's not what I want at all. I do not want to dominate every.
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